WorriedWilma Posted October 3, 2006 Posted October 3, 2006 Ive been going out with a guy for about 6 months. I do like him, he's good looking, caring, honest and loyal. The only problem is I dont get excited about him or even really care that much about him. He doesn't make me laugh as much as my friends and I don't feel like I have heaps of fun with him. I have a quirky world view and sometimes I feel like he just doesn't get it... Then again I havent really 'let him in'. Im 25 and Ive spent the past 6 years studying and working and really want to get out there and enjoy myself now that the hard work is over. I go out most weekends and party because that is what I have fun doing and really look forward to it but in the harsh light of day Im bored with everything, him included. I dont want to end things without giving him a chance but wonder if there's anything I can do to make myself more interested? I rarely find anyone I am even attracted to so Id hate look back and regret not making the most of it. Any advice?
JCD Posted October 3, 2006 Posted October 3, 2006 I think one has to find the other person interesting or fun to be with if things are to progress. There is nothing wrong with him being only your friend. I mean, how can you love someone you don't care about? Just doesn't seem to compute.
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