Rewind Posted October 3, 2006 Posted October 3, 2006 I am extremely attracted to this guy, I mean I pretty much wanna rip his clothes off who I see every day on my commute . I would do anything for this guy to just say something to me lol. Anyway our "glances" so to speak have been going on for months now on a daily basis. Anyway I would always make it a point to look away so it didn't look like I was staring at him which it might have at times in the beginning since I would check him out on occasion. He has a group a friends , girls included, that he usually sits with but not every day. Anyway we get off the same stop but sit on different cars. Every day we would make eye contact. Like I would be looking around and just see him staring. I would catch him looking at me or he would always happen to be a few feet away from me but evey time he would look away when he saw that I noticed. We also park by one another. Then for a few weeks as we would be walking he would turn around and look back while he was walking. So then I started thinking maybe he thinks I was follwing him or something lol. Anyway I look forward to seeing him each day as corny as that sounds. I'm really not one to appraoch a guy. I'm an attractive girl so maybe he's just afraid to approach me or maybe he don't even think I'm attractive which is why he's never made a move. I noticed now that when he parks his car he'll wait till I walk past it sometimes and then some lol till he pulls away. I don't know if maybe our eye contact is just coindence or if he's attracted to me as well or maybe I'm thinking way too much into this. I don't know what it is about him but I just find myself so drawn to him and this has been going on for months now which is driving me mad. I feel like the only way to get him to speak to me is to collapse in front of his car lol. A few weeks ago we ended up walking up the stairs at sorta the same time and when him and his friend apprached me they both just stopped talking which I found wierd. What should I do?
alphamale Posted October 3, 2006 Posted October 3, 2006 people generally look at the things they like and avoid looking at things they dislike.
magichands Posted October 3, 2006 Posted October 3, 2006 What should I do? Can you try to strike up a conversation? Are you talking buses, or a trains, or? And are you sure that he's not trying to hypnotise you? Be careful.
Author Rewind Posted October 3, 2006 Author Posted October 3, 2006 Can you try to strike up a conversation? Are you talking buses, or a trains, or? And are you sure that he's not trying to hypnotise you? Be careful. lol..its a train and a bus..
Jizzosh Posted October 3, 2006 Posted October 3, 2006 wow..that must be a long time. I know what you're going through, that's how it is with the girl I like. The only thing is(prolly a curse) I can tell what signs to look for and can mask them(can't really explain it, I used to not be able to but I've done it so much I can, like I can avoid looking at a hot girl if I can see her looking at me), so I have no idea if she knows I like her. Anyways, that'll all change tomorrow(yes! ) when I get the balls to talk to her. Looks like for you this guy won't talk to you, so if you want any sort of shot with him you'll have to be the brave one. You said he has a group of friends with guys and girls, does he talk to the girls? It's also hard to tell because I have girl friends but I've never had a date, and can talk well but am shy when it comes to most girls I find attractive. I mean, like I can look them in the eye when I speak to them but I just don't show off any signs that I like them. Yea..it's only been coincidence for a couple of months. Sorry, but you'll have to be the one to break the ice.
typical Posted October 3, 2006 Posted October 3, 2006 And are you sure that he's not trying to hypnotise you? Be careful. :lmao:
elijahBailey Posted October 3, 2006 Posted October 3, 2006 I wish a girl would look at me. maybe they were but you just weren't lookin'
Ross_K Posted October 3, 2006 Posted October 3, 2006 There's been loads of times that I've looked around like in supermarkets ect, hoping to catch a woman checking me out, but it never happens.
mental_traveller Posted October 4, 2006 Posted October 4, 2006 He's definitely interested. Just make up some excuse to start small talk with him after getting off the train, smile a lot etc, then say hey why don't we do lunch sometime and give him your number. If he's interested, he will call.
Guest Posted October 21, 2006 Posted October 21, 2006 Ive read that any eye contact over 3-4 seconds is indication of attraction. Only a few reasons someone holds eye contact that long without speaking is they are relatives/really really close friends, lovers(or would be), or they hate them. yeah eye contact is a good thing. I think its his way of telling you he is open to conversation. Just start talking to him already. lol.... When you get opened up enough either that day or another day. Mention a movie you want to see but that your friends are too busy or can't go and see what he does.
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