konfused Posted October 3, 2006 Posted October 3, 2006 Cunnilingus that is. I've been dating this girl for a while and am curious how to approach this subject. I don't mind performing said activity, sometimes I even enjoy it. Mostly though I do it to pleasure the girl. Some girls prefer to keep their hair longer than others. If I lick on hair I gag. Nothing against the girl, just a reflex of mine. Is it going to far to ask her to crop it if she wants me to go down? Who is the onus on? Just looking for a polite and respectful way to broach the subject. Thanks
Art_Critic Posted October 3, 2006 Posted October 3, 2006 Generally we as guys have to take it the way it is served.. If you insult the cook you will just piss her off.. I think until you feel more comfortable talking to her than you need to be a man and suck it up.. so to speak Once you feel comfortable talking to her then it shouldn't be a problem.. you can even offer to crop it for her.. but until then...
emmaUK Posted October 3, 2006 Posted October 3, 2006 can u not hold the lips wide open so that you are only licking the bits with no hair??? n jus give the hairy bits a bit of a kiss.
Walk Posted October 3, 2006 Posted October 3, 2006 Maybe you could casually mention that you find it really sexy when a woman trims/shaves/etc her pubic hair? I wouldnt' find that rude, or insulting. Most people want to do things that their partner finds arousing... if the girl wants to be as attractive/sexy as she can be for you, then she probably would do it. In my long ago past... I've had guys suggest I "trim" a bit closer... I guess it's all in the presentation. If you act disgusted then it's going to be taken wrong. Some enthusiasm for a trimmed look because its sexy and turns you on might work better. Also, trim yourself and show off to her. Might make her feel more comfortable to do the same for you...
Rooster_DAR Posted October 3, 2006 Posted October 3, 2006 Being trim myself, I have carefully mention to my G/F's that I like the brazillian type of trim on women and I think it's very sexy. Always works for me!
tanbark813 Posted October 3, 2006 Posted October 3, 2006 Generally we as guys have to take it the way it is served.. I have to disagree. Every girl I've asked to shave has done so. Only one I needed to do a little convincing and once they feel it without the hair in the way they're hooked.
Art_Critic Posted October 3, 2006 Posted October 3, 2006 I have to disagree. Every girl I've asked to shave has done so. Only one I needed to do a little convincing and once they feel it without the hair in the way they're hooked. I was under the impression that he just started dating her.. 1 week ago he was only on his 3rd date. Tan I do agree with you that women will trim it up.. but any girl that I just started to date I'm sure never wanted to hear " can ya trim that thing "
tanbark813 Posted October 3, 2006 Posted October 3, 2006 I was under the impression that he just started dating her.. 1 week ago he was only on his 3rd date. Ahh, okay. I took "dating this girl for a while" to mean they were together and had been for at least a few months. But yeah, it definitely shouldn't be brought up on the 4th or 5th date.
Art_Critic Posted October 3, 2006 Posted October 3, 2006 Ahh, okay. I took "dating this girl for a while" to mean they were together and had been for at least a few months. But yeah, it definitely shouldn't be brought up on the 4th or 5th date. Maybe the OP can answer how long they have been dating.. I did go back and look up his past posts.. it looks like about 3-4 weeks ago it was their 3rd date.. So...... I would think that a month or so would be long enough...
Rooster_DAR Posted October 4, 2006 Posted October 4, 2006 This is an easy one. Once your girl is comfortable enough to watch a porn movie, that's the time to mention what you like. I'm not sure about you guys, but every girl I've been with enjoyed porn, at least the first year.
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