crzybeautifl88 Posted October 2, 2006 Posted October 2, 2006 I have been talking to this guy for about a month and a half. We just met for the first time this weekend. Before this weekend we spent approximately 3 to 5 hours on the phone EVERY night. Talking about anything and everything. He tells me that i'm one of a kind that he hasn't ever met anyone like me, nor if he lost me would he find anyone like me again. This weekend went great, we got a long so well. Sounds great right? wrong...here is the confusing part: I don't believe any of that stuff. I don't know if my problem lays in a trust issue that I have or if it's just him. I know he has many female admirers, some that are his friends that have had an interest in him for so long...they live closer why would he want to be with me? He acts so upset when i start to back off, i do that occassionally i feel like its to good to be true and i try to push him away...he's claimed that once it even made him sick to his stomache when i said i didnt think that we should be anything more than friends...it seems to good to be true, like everything he says in a line. I don't know whether I should believe anything he says or not or if I should just let a few walls down. I read this post from clia...she said one of the signs of a commitment phobe is that they come on strong at first...scary scary thought. He does try to make me believe him he claims he wants me to trust him, he put my picture up on his myspace profile with the caption of me being his girlfriend he changed all of his stuff to ina relationship...so what ami complaining about right? no idea......... so i decided to post on here and let yall tell me im crazy or something lol He sent texts after i left last night saying how he knew me not being there tonight was goign to suck, that me staying the weekend with him made his whole month, he also claimed that he wanted to quit smoking bc he knew i dont like it and that i make him happy enough to not need it anymore.he wants to ahve pictures taken together...im crazy i ahve to be, whats my problem?
Jizzosh Posted October 2, 2006 Posted October 2, 2006 I'm kinda confused..are you afraid that once you become bf/gf he's gonna cheat on you?
MadDog Posted October 3, 2006 Posted October 3, 2006 You're both crazy. You've met once and he's talking about getting sick to his stomach because you said you two should be friends and you're talking about trust issues. Why don't you try dating this guy for a while before you let insanity like this begin?
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