noxnoctisangela Posted October 2, 2006 Posted October 2, 2006 So apperently according to my friends i am self centered and arrogant. Which I dont see at all. My supposed bbf is mad at me b/c she claimed while i was dating my ex I would never call her unless i needed something and that i ignored her. Thing is that i recall is that I called her alot but she never answer the phone or return my messages and when i did talk to her i didnt ask her for anything other than to hang out but in which if we did make plans she would always cancel them b/c she was "sick". she also indirectly said going to a concert was more important than my birthday...my 21st mind you. And if someone was soo upset that i was "not calling" her, then why didnt she call me? She never once called me. If I am so self centered then why am i doing all the work? Does this make sense to anyone?
Zeeboo Zebuloo Posted October 3, 2006 Posted October 3, 2006 There's a hidden culture of covert aggression in girls that men usually aren't forced to deal with. My guess would be that your 'friend' who's so quick to judge you as 'self centered' has several bones to pick with you. She probably feels somehow inadequate to you. Perhaps she's right. Are you unnecessarily competitive with her?...Or is she just envious & jealous thinking 'Is SHE farther ahead than I?' Things would be so much easier if you were a man. You could just punch the hell out of each other or play nerf football or something and be done with it...
Author noxnoctisangela Posted October 5, 2006 Author Posted October 5, 2006 I have never tried to complete with her...she takes everything way to seriously..like apparently i told her two years ago her costume was bad...(i dont even remember her costume..i was told it was moulin rouge costume...i dont remember saying something like it and if i did i wasnt serious...i would never say something like seriously...but even so why hold a grudge for two years on it...lameee but of course like girls she would never say it to my face how she feels..she rather just tell me she is "sick" and run away like a coward. All she wants to do is be with her bf... i think she is trying to comfort herself knowing she is a bad friend by lying to her self that i was ignoring her and trying to make me the bad friend..i give up...i'm just going let her wallow in her own self pity.
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