Tinkerbell20 Posted October 2, 2006 Posted October 2, 2006 Hi I'm in a starnge situation & any advice or opinions would be great.. I was with my boyfriend for a year and a half & everything seemed perfect, we were in love, spoke a few times a day, say eachother as much as possible. Then 3 and a half months ago he went abroad to visit his parents (as they live abroad) as they were some family problems. He had to leave quite suddenly so he didn't explain what was going on in detail. His phone doesn't work in the country he went to so he said he'd email & call straight away when he got there. Everytime he went away in the past we'd still speak everyday, but it's 3 and a half months now & I've heard nothing. I know he's still not back as he's not at university & his phone's still switched off, also friends have told me he's still over there as there are serious family problems. I don't have his contact details so I can't call him until he gets back. My birthday's coming up in 3 weeks & I was wondering if anyone thinks I may hear from him for it? Personally I don't think there's an excuse for not calling all this time but I'm so confused & I still love him. I just want to know what's happened. Does anyone have any opinions or advice? Thanks alot for reading this
tangerine trees Posted October 2, 2006 Posted October 2, 2006 Its kind o f****ty that its been 3.5 months and you havent heard from him... I mean, if his friends know that he is having serious family trouble, couldnt he hvae told you too?? If he's worth anything he better call you for your birthday. If he doesn't, forget about him.
Green Posted October 2, 2006 Posted October 2, 2006 Hes iether having problems that are so seriouse he doesnt give a crap about the relationship anymore or he just doesnt care because he just doesnt care. You should move on either way it really sucks just not knowing but there is nothing you can do but move on he's no odeseus you know
norajane Posted October 2, 2006 Posted October 2, 2006 He's your boyfriend and you haven't heard from him, but he's contacted his other friends? That's very bizarre. I'd say you shouldn't count on a phone call for your birthday.
emmaUK Posted October 2, 2006 Posted October 2, 2006 if he loved n cared about you enough then there is no way he'd be able to go for 3.5 months without any contact. when u r really into someone, tha last thing you would want is to not have any contact with them for that amount of time no matter what family problems you were having. he better have a pretty good reason for doing this to you and i deff wouldnt just let him waltz back in and everything be all rosey again if he ever decides to show up.
Sally00 Posted October 3, 2006 Posted October 3, 2006 Wow. He obviously doesn't love you... I'm sorry he's ignored you for so long. You don't deserve that. No one does.
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