Guest Posted October 2, 2006 Posted October 2, 2006 My boyfriend used have this huge problem with weed a year and a half ago. When i met him, he had decided to quit and clean up his act!! 7 months later he has started again. everyday smoking but we decided to travel europe together and we came to london i was working he was smoking for 4 months. now he has a really stressful job in real estate in london where he works 9am to 8 pm 6 days a week. but he spends monday to thursday with music coz his a dj too. friday he has a work meeting and then drinks with his work mates. instead of coming home he'll stop at another friends place to burn one and instead of being home at 10 his comes home at 1 or 2am Saturday is his day off but we spend only a couple of hours together cause his on his phone most of the day but when we together his smoking it again then goes to see friends and comes back trashed. on sunday i have to struggle for and hour or two to get him out of bed to get to work at 9. when his finish at 5 he walks into the house at 10 so high then roles another one eats all the food in our place and then crashs. it happen like that all the time. its been 2 months now what should i do?
emmaUK Posted October 2, 2006 Posted October 2, 2006 hmmm ive dated a few weed smokers and i dont think u can ever have a proper relationship with a guy who smokes it regular. i would date a guy who smoked it very occasionally but never ever someone who smoked alot again, the weed does come first for sure. also they tend to have a very short fuse n get angry over nothing when they arent stoned and also can not c anything from anyone elses pont of view because their brain is so messed up. if he cared 4 u enuff then he'd understand that the weed is ruining the relationship n maybe cut down so he only smokes on occasions. my current Bf started smokin regular again after ages of not smoking and i noticed that massive change in him..... i sat him down and told him that he had changed for the worse since startin smokin again and after a few days of thinkin about it he came back to me and said that he thought i was right n he didnt like the way he had been talking to me and distancing himself from me and that he was going to stop. and he has done. it has shown me that he cares alot about the relationship and things being good between us.
SmoochieFace Posted October 2, 2006 Posted October 2, 2006 what should i do? What you should do is decide whether you want to allow the 'weed' to take precedence over you in this relationship. If you are happy with being 'second rate' with the 'weed' being 'first rate' then by all means stick around with your BF. If, OTOH, you feel differently then proceed accordingly.
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