Guest Posted October 2, 2006 Posted October 2, 2006 I dated this girl for about three months, we really enjoyed spending time together, and had a lot in common. We could talk to each other about common stuff, but when it came to talking about us, we rarely did it. When we broke up about four months, we started talking about three weeks later. Now whenever we see each other we at least say hi to each other. i cant decide whether or not to try to go back out with her or not some times i really want to then other times i want to move on. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Jane Doe Posted October 2, 2006 Posted October 2, 2006 Your post is a little vague. Why did you two break up to begin with? Has she dated anyone since? How did she treat you when you two were together?
Tony T Posted October 2, 2006 Posted October 2, 2006 I dated this girl for about three months, we really enjoyed spending time together, and had a lot in common. We could talk to each other about common stuff, but when it came to talking about us, we rarely did it. When we broke up about four months, we started talking about three weeks later. Now whenever we see each other we at least say hi to each other. i cant decide whether or not to try to go back out with her or not some times i really want to then other times i want to move on. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. I never think it's a good idea to go backwards. You broke up for a reason. Remember the reason. If you thought at that time things could be salvaged and you both agreed, that was the time to work it out. Move on with your life.
Ukwizard Posted October 2, 2006 Posted October 2, 2006 You broke up for a reason. Remember the reason.I absolutely hate that phrase. When my ex broke up with me. I wasn`t even given the pleasure of a reason! You can ONLY salavage a relationship if you know what `reason`, or reasons, that caused the break up. I`d say this to `guest`. Three months isn`t a considerable amount of time to find out about someone. You post is VERY vague. If you broke up with her. Then why not talk to her about a future. I was EXACTLY like you with my ex, and I never talked about `us` too. Tell us Loveshackers more, so we can give you a more acurrate answer. Who broke up with who. What where the reasons, if there were any?
alphamale Posted October 2, 2006 Posted October 2, 2006 if she dumped you then you don't want to go back to her. she probably wouldn't agree to it anyways.
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