stillafool Posted October 9, 2006 Posted October 9, 2006 I'm sorry, I have to comment on the fact that some OW sometimes go to their MM's house. That ain't on. OMG, I couldn't believe that either. Going to the W's home to have sex is the ultimate in "disrespect". I guess if she catches you there you deserve whatever you get.
BenThereDunThat Posted October 9, 2006 Posted October 9, 2006 No way could I have even stepped foot into my exMM's house - let alone did the 'deed' there! For my own selfish reasons though. I would not want to even see any of her things, pictures, nothing. He was working on his patio when we were still "together" and mentioned 'you'll have to come see it sometime.' I flat out told him, I will never, ever, EVER see your house. Outside, inside, front yard, back yard. None of it.
whichwayisup Posted October 9, 2006 Posted October 9, 2006 For my own selfish reasons though. I would not want to even see any of her things, pictures, nothing. Can I ask why? Were you afraid that his wife would seem "real" to you? Like she actually does exist and is a breathing, feeling human being? I don't mean to sound bitchy, I just wonder why....I mean, you know he married - So maybe seeing his life with his wife would make your relationship with the MM seem less? Or make you feel jealous? Or even guilty about helping him cheat on his wife?
whichwayisup Posted October 9, 2006 Posted October 9, 2006 Going to the W's home to have sex is the ultimate in "disrespect". I guess if she catches you there you deserve whatever you get. Don't ya think banging her husband is disrespectful enough???
BenThereDunThat Posted October 9, 2006 Posted October 9, 2006 Can I ask why? Were you afraid that his wife would seem "real" to you? Like she actually does exist and is a breathing, feeling human being? I don't mean to sound bitchy, I just wonder why....I mean, you know he married - So maybe seeing his life with his wife would make your relationship with the MM seem less? Or make you feel jealous? Or even guilty about helping him cheat on his wife? Actually, a little bit of all of the above! Very shortly after we broke up, I accidentally ran into her. Something the exMM tried very hard to avoid. If it hadn't been over by then, that would have done it. She was just this nameless, faceless thing to me. Right during the break-up, I did google her and found a picture of her. I couldn't take it anymore.
Guest Posted October 9, 2006 Posted October 9, 2006 my advice as a current OW, go have some kick boxing lessons!!! then prepare ur mind aswell, karate and stuff are ment to help u channel ur thoughts and maybe it will help u be controlled and rational when the moment of confrontation arises!! (its what i'm planning on doing!!!!) but it can happen to the best of us, at this current time in ur life u don't need to be beaten round the head with what u've done wrong, i'm sure ur awear of that,(as i am) but it has, and thats unchangeable now. u need advice from those who have been in ur situation, moral support for the immoral and from the imorral if u like!!! but best of luck, just remember ***** happens... to everyone. just keep ur chin up, think clearly and rationally, and be thankful u have ur health and a decent life!!!! good luck :-)
stillafool Posted October 9, 2006 Posted October 9, 2006 [quote=whichwayisup;942187]Don't ya think banging her husband is disrespectful enough??? Absolutely banging her husband is disrespectful as hell! But to actually have the gaul to step foot in her house knowing you're screwing her husband is just too awful for words. I'm sorry as I don't want to judge her but my goodness does the line get drawn anywhere?
Guest Posted October 9, 2006 Posted October 9, 2006 I have told him that if she comes to me I will tell her to ask him for any and all information. The ball is in his court. I am divorced with children who live at home. I don't care if she balls me out, I just do not want my children involved in the scene. Maybe you should have thought about your children before you started screwing another woman's husband. Does he have kids? What about them? You are only thinking about yourself and you deserve whatever you get. If I were the wife, I wouldn't bother wasting my time on a piece of dirt like you. Hopefully she will kick his butt out the door and then the two of you can live happily ever after. The wife deserves better.
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