Guest44298625 Posted October 1, 2006 Posted October 1, 2006 my wife is a stripper and she knows I hate it.... We've been forced to have a LDR because of problems with immigration I had.... she says she does it for financial reasons... I still hate it... I think she could find alternative means of employment... what should I do?? we have a babygirl.... I feel extorted because my coming back to the U.S. depends on her. also ever seeing the baby depends on her too.... I do love her, but she is causing too much stress on me...
Guest Posted October 2, 2006 Posted October 2, 2006 my wife is a stripper and she knows I hate it.... We've been forced to have a LDR because of problems with immigration I had.... she says she does it for financial reasons... I still hate it... I think she could find alternative means of employment... what should I do?? we have a babygirl.... I feel extorted because my coming back to the U.S. depends on her. also ever seeing the baby depends on her too.... I do love her, but she is causing too much stress on me... I understand she needs a job but she can make money some other way besides stripping! Sure stripping makes good money ,but if you aren't ok with it than she should respect your feelings.
catgirl1927 Posted October 2, 2006 Posted October 2, 2006 I understand she needs a job but she can make money some other way besides stripping! Sure stripping makes good money ,but if you aren't ok with it than she should respect your feelings. I find this funny, as so many men on this site say that women must live with their husbands "visiting" strippers because it's just not natural for people to be monogamous. Of course, because guest is anonymous I know nothing about him/her, or his/her opinion of men in relationships being with strippers. I just find it interesting that the stripper, who in previous instances wasn't involved in anything that could be considered cheating, suddenly is supposed to stop doing it when SHE is the one in the relationship. Huh.
Guest Posted October 2, 2006 Posted October 2, 2006 I find this funny, as so many men on this site say that women must live with their husbands "visiting" strippers because it's just not natural for people to be monogamous. Of course, because guest is anonymous I know nothing about him/her, or his/her opinion of men in relationships being with strippers. I just find it interesting that the stripper, who in previous instances wasn't involved in anything that could be considered cheating, suddenly is supposed to stop doing it when SHE is the one in the relationship. Huh. WTF!!! Did you even read the post before posting? I think you need to go back and reread the post catgirl.. The poster was wanting the opinion of what he should do about his wife stripping!
LittleLady Posted October 2, 2006 Posted October 2, 2006 you married her knowing full well she was a stripper. that's something you straighten out before marriage, not after. marrying her in that condition is really showing that it was acceptable to you.
Guest44298625 Posted October 4, 2006 Posted October 4, 2006 you married her knowing full well she was a stripper. that's something you straighten out before marriage, not after. marrying her in that condition is really showing that it was acceptable to you. Well, I thought it would be acceptable because we're not in the same country. But I think sometimes it takes it's toll on me because every night I think about where she is or what she is doing I get the picture in my head that she is stripping to these drunk guys. I end up getting angry. I didn't know until 3 weeks before our date set to marry. We've been waiting a long time to do it because she had to come to this country to do it. It was hard to say no after she came all the way overhere to marry me. I tried to accept it because she needs the money and I thought I could. I just can't, I will never be that man. I don't know what to do.
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