Katrene Posted September 30, 2006 Posted September 30, 2006 After 25 years of marriage, my husband came up with allowing me to share chat and pics with men and other women online. It is very erotic and stimulating plus, it's safe. A hint: Have a selection of pics that are progressively more provocative as the chat intensifies.
Jane Doe Posted September 30, 2006 Posted September 30, 2006 I've never understood the whole concept of cybersex. What exactly do you do? Type while masturbating or what? Honestly, I have no clue.
JamesM Posted September 30, 2006 Posted September 30, 2006 you seem stuck on this issue...why? Perhaps...you are recruiting?
Touche Posted September 30, 2006 Posted September 30, 2006 I know this is weird. Didn't you start this exact same thread before?
Tony T Posted September 30, 2006 Posted September 30, 2006 I know this is weird. Didn't you start this exact same thread before? Yes, she has many times.
whichwayisup Posted September 30, 2006 Posted September 30, 2006 I think maybe she's hoping someone (or more) from LS will join in their fun. Seems she's putting the bait out for us! No thanks!
magichands Posted September 30, 2006 Posted September 30, 2006 I think maybe she's hoping someone (or more) from LS will join in their fun. So you're admitting that it's fun??!! You sick woman. It's good that her husband is allowing her, though. (It's a rare blessing that a woman truly understands the way a marriage works.)
whichwayisup Posted September 30, 2006 Posted September 30, 2006 So you're admitting that it's fun??!! You sick woman. It's obviously fun for them!
JamesM Posted September 30, 2006 Posted September 30, 2006 Nah, I do not think she is sick. She may have something that is interestng. As I said before, how can we reach you?
Tony T Posted September 30, 2006 Posted September 30, 2006 I'd wrather have phone sex I tried that once. We had a threesome on a conference call and both of them got pregnant. Ma Bell is swell!
Author Katrene Posted October 1, 2006 Author Posted October 1, 2006 1. Not sick 2.This worked for us thought it might help others 3.Only had a few days off--supposed to get a lot of posts in 4.**** off
Touche Posted October 1, 2006 Posted October 1, 2006 1. Not sick 2.This worked for us thought it might help others 3.Only had a few days off--supposed to get a lot of posts in 4.**** off HUH????
riobikini Posted October 1, 2006 Posted October 1, 2006 About Cybersex: Here are a few things to seriously consider.... Do you *know* where your photos (and convo transcripts) are going? where they will wind up down the road? or know for certain that your online webcam sessions are not being recorded? Do you even care if they are? or have you considered how they can come back to damage your (and your family's) life? Do you feel an increasing *need* to be online doing this with someone? Does it feel the least bit *addictive* for you? Does the content of what you do become increasingly more "out there" (more explicit?) with time? Do you feel less and less "in touch" with the person you are married to or committed to in "real life"? For instance has the significance of the bond between you and your real life partner decreased? Are you showing even the slightest signs of living more in the virtual world of your PC than in your real life world? Do you find yourself being increasingly tempted to look in sex/porn sites for more than just passing curiosity? Do you find yourself feeling jealous of your online cybersex partner, and wondering whether or not he/she is "cheating" on you? Has being online involved in cybersex become more important, and more gratifying than having sex with your partner who can display feelings and emotions in person?? Asnswer each of those questions for yourself. Then decide if this can turn out to be (or already has become) more of a problem for you than you really want to take on. -Rio
whichwayisup Posted October 1, 2006 Posted October 1, 2006 Do you *know* where your photos are going? or know for certain that your online webcam sessions are not being recorded? Funny you mention this, afew weeks ago on the news there was a story about a woman who found out the embarressing way that her naked pictures were ALL over the net through email, thanks to her pyscho exboyfriend. Her pictures travelled across the world, until someone she knew got the email and showed it to her. It took 24 hours from when the first email was sent before someone she knew told her what was going on. Makes ya stop and think twice about hitting send.....I hope anyway!
riobikini Posted October 1, 2006 Posted October 1, 2006 WWIU, good example of a common threat of cybersex. With cybersex, you cannot get pregnant; you cannot contract an STD -but you CAN certainly start something that can TOTALLY and ABSOLUTELY redirect your life in such a negative way that it's hell to find your way back to the least similarity to 'normalcy' and sanity. In the long run, it's not as innocent -or as "fun"- as it appears. Take care. -Rio
Author Katrene Posted October 2, 2006 Author Posted October 2, 2006 About Cybersex: Here are a few things to seriously consider.... Do you *know* where your photos (and convo transcripts) are going? where they will wind up down the road? or know for certain that your online webcam sessions are not being recorded? Do you even care if they are? or have you considered how they can come back to damage your (and your family's) life? Do you feel an increasing *need* to be online doing this with someone? Does it feel the least bit *addictive* for you? Does the content of what you do become increasingly more "out there" (more explicit?) with time? Do you feel less and less "in touch" with the person you are married to or committed to in "real life"? For instance has the significance of the bond between you and your real life partner decreased? Are you showing even the slightest signs of living more in the virtual world of your PC than in your real life world? Do you find yourself being increasingly tempted to look in sex/porn sites for more than just passing curiosity? Do you find yourself feeling jealous of your online cybersex partner, and wondering whether or not he/she is "cheating" on you? Has being online involved in cybersex become more important, and more gratifying than having sex with your partner who can display feelings and emotions in person?? Asnswer each of those questions for yourself. Then decide if this can turn out to be (or already has become) more of a problem for you than you really want to take on. -Rio Wow, That was the most depressing, paranoid load of stuff I've heard all day. You're one step away from "I'm going to die anyway so why try to live'. Lighten up. My husband can be a very bad man. I'll be OK.
catgirl1927 Posted October 2, 2006 Posted October 2, 2006 How has it "helped" you? I'm not trying to be bitchy or anything, it's a serious question.
Guest Posted October 2, 2006 Posted October 2, 2006 I'm actually interested in how this is working for her and her husband? After 25 years if it made them closer than cool! I wish I could get my wife to do something like it or anything to make her more sexual!
riobikini Posted October 2, 2006 Posted October 2, 2006 Catgurl, your question to the original poster, "How has it helped you?" -is one I'd like to hear, too. Actually, I think it would be more interesting to hear from this lady, in regards to how her marriage is holding up, in a couple of years. -Rio
catgirl1927 Posted October 3, 2006 Posted October 3, 2006 She seems to have disappeared. I'm thinking troll. And Guest, if you want your wife to let you have sex with other people, maybe it's time for a divorce.
Author Katrene Posted October 4, 2006 Author Posted October 4, 2006 Posts: 15 My husband and I have been married over 20 years. Like everyone else, our sex life went south. Every aspect of our life was wonderful except that. And that is such an important thing, that it was about to destroy us. Eventually, it would end up with an affair, divorce or both. We tried everything known to man, nothing worked and the resentment kept growing. We discovered that me chatting and sharing pics with men and other women online excited, not only the two of us but, also gave many of the men that I have chatted with, an alternative to the destruction of their marriages. It is a much appreciated release. To the uptight *******s out there who say it is the same as an affair, I can tell you that it isn't even close. If you don't like me posting here, do what you're going to do, because I know how much good has come from it. One of the things I have told a lot of men is, what really turns me on is thinking about them having sex with their wives. I have put up with a lot of insults from twitty little boys and uptight women. It seems that the moddies find insulting people is just fine. If you don't like my posts, whenever you see my name, move on. The people who do like my posts are emailing me and you never hear from them because they're not crap slingers.
Toni_no12002 Posted October 4, 2006 Posted October 4, 2006 When you posted this thread you knew that you would get people dissagreeing with you.Not everyone has the same opinions as you do.There no need to call people just because they think its wrong.What did you expect people to say to you anyway ?that they think what your doing is great?This board is for people to offer advice and about sharing there opinions.If they think its wrong then thats up to them.If you think its right then thats up to you. It sounds like your the one who wants to argue with everyone because not everyone shares your views.
LeeAnn26 Posted October 6, 2006 Posted October 6, 2006 Katrene "We discovered that me chatting and sharing pics with men and other women online ..... also gave many of the men that I have chatted with, an alternative to the destruction of their marriages. It is a much appreciated release. To the uptight *******s out there who say it is the same as an affair, I can tell you that it isn't even close. " This may be your point of view, but I beg to differ. I am at the moment struggling with a partner who has a compulsion for online chats and cybersex - which at this point is very close to leading to the destruction of my marriage. I may be old-fashioned here, but if my partner is spending time jerking off while chatting and sharing pics, i do consider it cheating. If he wants to do that fine, he can choose to walk away and get on with it as much as he likes... And no, i have never turned him down, i have tried everything from watching porn with him to trying just about any sexual position (watching porn with me makes him feel "uncomfortable"...) Oh yes, i didnt mention that if another man even glances in my direction, or, heaven forbid, tries to talk to me, my partner goes totally ballistic. He is convinced that there are millions of men out there all waiting in line to f*ck me, and is terrified that i will find someone else, but thinks his behaviour is ok? I think it is a little bit sad, if you guys choose to be partners but need to get your inspiration elsewhere. That is not how i want to live
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