tonyeltiger Posted September 30, 2006 Posted September 30, 2006 Hey there everyone, here's my dilema. I've been dating my current girl for 3 years now. It's been my longest relationship and we've went through a lot together. However, since about a year and a half into the relationship, I realized that I do not want to spend the rest of my life with her. I actually broke up with her at this time because of other reasons, (her being overly-attached, possesive, and insanely jealous of other girls). But of course all this happened only to find myself taking her back 3 days later ><. We have a semi-long distance relationship going now (about 2 hours), and I feel pretty bad about my current position. I still do not want to be with her. I would love to be friends, but I cannot be the man she wants me to be. We have become very different people. And I find myself considering another girl to be much more suited for me. I'm not so much conserned about this other girl than I am about being in this stressful relationship. I just worry about my current girl's taking of a breakup. She is very attached, and is to the point that I don't know if she would do something bad or crazy if I broke it off. How would you suggest me breaking up? Also, how can I make it easier for her? I just don't think it is fair for me to be with her when I can see myself with this other woman and have no ambition or desire to fulfill her dreams of marriage. Thanks for your understanding and help.
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