scuderia Posted September 29, 2006 Posted September 29, 2006 Know a girl since august 2005, become closer since dec2005, began liking her in march 2006,apr/may 2006 she start toking to me less n less caus she got closer to another person, july 2006 i found out thru my sources that shes attached to that person heart broken. 2 mths now since i found out shes attached and she din even tell me. i mantain no contact since then. it definaely much better than how i was feeling the 1st week after i found out shes attached. Its just that i've been recovering and now its like reached a certain point and it remains stangnant. Its seems like i'm stuck at this stage and cant make any progress in my recovery beyond this. How long do you guys based on experience think i will need to get over her? anyway she did alot of things whihc made me realise she juz took advantage of my caringness for her n made use of it for her own selffish reasons. This made me very angry and hurt. Had the anger for over 1 & 1/2 mth. Now no longer angry but just tthat sometimes when i think about it, i still think of her as a ***** for making use of me for her selfish reasons. i have to see her from early next year onwards once i go back to UNI. i really hope i can get over her by end of the year. What do u people think? Am i expecting too fast and too much?[/sIZE][/FONT]
joriel Posted September 29, 2006 Posted September 29, 2006 It sounds like you didn't realize that you cared for her until she was already on her way out the door mate. If she was ever into you, she probably figured that you were taking too long to make your move. I don't know how long it will take for you to get over her. To be honest, it might take you longer than folks that had a relationship because right now you want what you can't have and have never had. I wish you luck with that but maybe you should consider jumping back on the horse. Go out with some friends, make some new ones, same old story...
Josalina Posted September 30, 2006 Posted September 30, 2006 u wont get over her until u find someone else better then her, becos until then no one will match up to her. does she know u had feelings for her?
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