Shana555 Posted September 29, 2006 Posted September 29, 2006 Tonight is my ex’s friends wedding. He’s one of the groomsmen. Of course I was his date. I am such a romantic and love going to weddings. Last weekend I bought a beautiful dress and shoes for it and got my hair done. I’ve been so excited to go. Then Monday is when I found out he was cheating on him. I’m so sad. Knowing he’s going to be at this wedding tonight probably with this other girl. Witnessing the love shared between the couple getting married. Dancing together. I’m in tears just picturing them together at that romantic time. Why did this have to happen? I always though he was the one and that it would be us getting married. I’ve tried to make plans to keep busy tonight to keep my mind off of the wedding, but the people I usually hang out with are going to be at the wedding. I guess I also will have to avoid my friends myspace pages too because I know they will post pictures of everyone at the wedding having so much fun and I don’t want to see him in those pictures. I’m hurting so badly and have no idea how I'm going to get through this without being so upset and constantly crying. I wish I could go to sleep and wake up in 5 months over this
Guest Posted September 29, 2006 Posted September 29, 2006 I feel for you . . . I was in an out-of-town wedding this past weekend and brought my significant other along w/me . . . We have been having problems and when we got back to our home city he called up some new woman he had met the previous week and asked her out (I've been in tears since). . . My point in telling you this is that going to the wedding together did not change a thing for me . . . try to be strong and know that although the ceremony is symbolic for the couple, most of the guests will not feel the same way. . . And what a jerk - you have to know that as the saying goes "if he will do it with you, he'll do it to you" . . . you are the winner for getting away from him . .
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