Parky Posted September 28, 2006 Posted September 28, 2006 You can read the background here:- http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t99099/ My ex has her driving test tomorrow and i want to wish her good luck and hope she passes. Can i send a simple text and to the point to wish her the luck? I want to say something like:- "Hi Laura. I've txt you to wish you good luck on your test tomorrow, i hope you pass" Should i break NC and go to LC. It's been 2 weeks 1 day since the break up and 1 week 3 days since NC started. I feel the need to let her know. She told me that she will let me know how she gets on, if she fails or pass, so i thought i'd give her some luck towards it by sending a simple txt, and she will probably txt back tomorrow saying she failed or passed. What should i do? Thanks.
laRubiaBonita Posted September 28, 2006 Posted September 28, 2006 try an experiment: see if ,by continuing NC with this girl, the sun rises tmw. It will. Life will go one whether you wish her the best of luck or the worst of luck. Move on.
turtle32 Posted September 28, 2006 Posted September 28, 2006 Parky you are just trying to come up with any excuse to contact her just like all of us but you think she cares if you wish her luck? look it is just like mine if she likes you and wants you she will come back if she dont she isnt you cant control that. I would leave it alone , i know it is hard it is for me but has she tried to contact you?
Ariadne Posted September 28, 2006 Posted September 28, 2006 Hi, I want to say something like:- "Hi Laura. I've txt you to wish you good luck on your test tomorrow, i hope you pass" It sounds wonderful to me. Ariadne
joriel Posted September 28, 2006 Posted September 28, 2006 At the end of the day only you can decide if wishing your ex luck on her driving test is all that important. From reading your previous thread it looks like a veiled attempt to show interest in what she's doing now since you didn't show much interest in the relationship. For me personally, I think it's an excuse to break NC (I did it too and then kicked myself) but, to each his own. Good luck with your decision but know that in the grand scheme of things, your wishing her luck on her drivers test isn't going to make her think, "Wow, what a great guy."
Amour77 Posted September 28, 2006 Posted September 28, 2006 Hi, It is too early for you to establish contact again. As was said, she does not really care, why should you? Just wait for her to contact you and let you know the result... She said she would let you know, but she might not even do so. If she does, it will be something like:"hey, you see, I can live without you and still achieve things!" If she does contact you, you may say something like: "well done", and that's it! Do not contact her first, or even do not contact her at all!
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