Guest Posted September 28, 2006 Posted September 28, 2006 I have been hanging out with this guy (I kind of like) in a group of friend for at least 6 months now. We get together about once a week. Well this week we may not get together as a group and I though this may give me an opportunity to spend some time alone with him, but I am super scared as to what to say. He is almost moved in to a new apartment (all the furniture is there, but he isn't sleeping there yet due to no TV and internet) so I am trying to think of something we could do together but I am not sure how to ask him. I don't know if he thinks we're just friends or what but I am willing to be patient and see how this relationship will go but I find he is much more open to me when we are sans friends. I thought I could ask him to get a bite or watch a movie, or show me his place, but I don't want to be too forward. He seems to enjoy my company. I am very unsure about guy/ girl friendships and boundries b/c I have never officially been friends with a guy? What can I ask him to do and not totally seem like a clingy stalker?
narcist_ave Posted September 28, 2006 Posted September 28, 2006 aSking to see his new place seems like a great idea! if you guys are already friends then this wouldnt be too awkward, and Im sure he is very excited and would be willing to show it off in a heart beat. Maybe afterwards you'll be hungry and can go grab a bite to eat:P Im forward with my feelings (NOT always a good thing!!) and i always say: "a closed mouth wont get fed". go for it, but dont forget to think about what this could do to ur friendship !
Guessin Posted September 29, 2006 Posted September 29, 2006 I have been hanging out with this guy (I kind of like) in a group of friend for at least 6 months now. We get together about once a week. Well this week we may not get together as a group and I though this may give me an opportunity to spend some time alone with him, but I am super scared as to what to say. He is almost moved in to a new apartment (all the furniture is there, but he isn't sleeping there yet due to no TV and internet) so I am trying to think of something we could do together but I am not sure how to ask him. I don't know if he thinks we're just friends or what but I am willing to be patient and see how this relationship will go but I find he is much more open to me when we are sans friends. I thought I could ask him to get a bite or watch a movie, or show me his place, but I don't want to be too forward. He seems to enjoy my company. I am very unsure about guy/ girl friendships and boundries b/c I have never officially been friends with a guy? What can I ask him to do and not totally seem like a clingy stalker? Does he have a car? If he does then ask him for a ride... well before lunch time or evening time. on the way back let him know you are hungry and suggest find somewhere to eat. Or find out where you can find a good and low price tv tell him you know how to get there but don't know how to tell him where is so you'll have to take him there. or get him a house warming presant... something for his house "vase or something" so you can make an excuse to go to his apartment to see it..
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