buzzie2 Posted September 27, 2006 Posted September 27, 2006 I just had my ten year highschool reunion. Back in highschool I was really unpopular and I had a crush on one of the most popular guys. He was a jock and class validictorian. Well he knew I liked him back then and he made my life a living hell. He would humiliate me and make me feel like crap. The only thing I found strange was when I went to my prom and got all dressed up I caught him checking me out. Okay- flash forward ten years later. I look way better now and ditched the coke bottle glasses and greasy hair and shyness reutine. Well I showed up looking very nice and have confidence now. He showed up late with his wife (he's married now). He ignored me the whole night and never apologized for what he did back then. But I kept catching him just STARING at me. Do you think maybe back then he did like me or something? Or maybe he just felt bad about how he treated me. I also caught his wife glaring at me. Does anyone have any insight to this?
nicki Posted September 27, 2006 Posted September 27, 2006 Hey, Buzzie, he most have thought you looked HOT at the reunion. (No doubt his wife noticed his staring, and that's why she was glaring at you.) No telling how he felt back in high school as a confused kid.. As much as it hurt then, it has no bearing on your self worth today. A lot of people were jerks in high school, for their own reasons having nothing to do with the poor kids they took it out on. Your revenge for how he treated you is that he now knows you are a hottie and he can never ever have you! *tauntingly says "na na na na na....."*
moman Posted September 27, 2006 Posted September 27, 2006 I can't see how there is anything left to worry about, but here's my take: He's probably sorry that he was such as ass now that you are hot and he is married. Maybe he's still a jackass. I love going home and seeing people I haven't seen in years - I used to be stick thin and whimpy but I always had lots of friends, but now I'm toned and burly, and the look on people's faces is priceless.
Tony T Posted September 28, 2006 Posted September 28, 2006 The guy hasn't seen you in ten years. He didn't like the "you" you were ten years ago. The "you" now is attractive and he was simply checking you out and showing his extreme rudeness by doing it indiscretely in front of his wife. My take on it is that the reunion is over, he is MARRIED, his wife has likely cut him off for a month or so in retaliation and if he runs into you on the street he may want to get something going with you until his wife is back online. I urge you to forget this married man from your past and look forward to a healthy relationship with someone whose eyes don't wander and who will make YOU his number one. Geeze....how long does it take people to catch on to all this?
magichands Posted September 28, 2006 Posted September 28, 2006 Geeze....how long does it take people to catch on to all this? C'mon Tony T, we're in this for the long haul. One by one - fixing the world's problems. (Except I don't do Sundays...that's the day I wash my hair.) PS: Buzzie2...he wants you bad. And Tony T said it all!
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