The girls who were bitches 20 yrs ago are now bitter catherders

[Picking_thru_Garbage]

:(I'm 38 and recently single again. The only "availble" women are the ones who were miserable, lying, cheating cunts in their teens and 20s. I avoided them then, I had nice awesome girlfriends. Those women, however, are now all married and taken. I'm faced with the rotten leftovers I rejected back then, and they are the typical bitter entitled types you see on Match and Craigslist. I'm not deluded enough to think I can get 25 yr old women. I should just give up shouldn't I? The divorce was necessary, but I certainly don't feel like it has allowed me to make a new start. My ex wife (who isn't an awful person) is already dating someone, and he seems okay.

 

Sh*t.

[Yamaha]

One man's garbage is another man's treasure.

 

Couldn't resist.

 

P.S.You need to watch your use of vulgarity if you want females to respond.

[Picking_thru_Garbage]

I recently ran in to a high school friend . She was a hottie back then, perfect smokin body, red hair, creamy skin. But she was a bitch to most people. Really stuck up and uptight. A real turn off to me. I had many chances to hook up with her back in the day, but I could never get over how uptight she was. She also dressed funny, always wearing professional dress, even to a movie or a ball game.

 

So I get a call from her to grab some dinner and catch up. Well she is still bitchy, uptight, and stuck up to most people, the problem is she aint so smokin anymore. She looked horrible. No more smokin body, looked like gravity was pretty cruel to her. Worst part was she wanted to hook up

 

No way. Now shes nothing more than a pathetic single 35 year old woman with a 40 year old body and a bitches attitude.

[tanbark813]

If you can see the flaw in your own logic, you win a cookie:

 

I had nice awesome girlfriends. Those women, however, are now all married and taken.

 

My ex wife (who isn't an awful person) is already dating someone

[luvtoto]

Where's Tony Robbins when you need him?

[alphamale]

Life has a funny way of evening things out over time. One truth is what goes around eventually comes around.

[bluechocolate]

Whoa nelly!

 

You sound pretty bitter yourself.

 

We tend to attract what we project.

 

I don't think you should give up, but maybe you should wait a bit until you're in a better frame of mind & without such contempt for the ladies.

 

Moving to a different place probably wouldn't hurt either.

[luvtoto]

Any man that is going to refer to women as "garbage" shouldn't be dating.

[CryingCanuck]

Coming to this site and saying the stuff you said is pretty rotten if you ask me. Many of us here are somewhat hurt/bitter as a result of what's happened to us but to make such ( rude, vulgar, Childish) wide sweeping comments about women in general really doesn't require a reply but I felt the need today, you reminded me of just how some people are plain mean and others not.... MAybe after you calm yourself down try to figure out where you are in that....

[Adunaphel]

:(I'm 38 and recently single again. The only "availble" women are the ones who were miserable, lying, cheating cunts in their teens and 20s.

 

Your environment must be pretty limited. Move away! One mile or two would probably do. Unless you live in a very unfortunate or deserted area, or in a big bad part of the town.

 

 

I'm not deluded enough to think I can get 25 yr old women.

 

Older women are much more interesting!

 

I should just give up shouldn't I?

 

No. You should just get to know new people - it sounds like you haven't dated outside your high school circle of acquaintances.

[pricillia]

:(I'm 38 and recently single again. The only "availble" women are the ones who were miserable, lying, cheating cunts in their teens and 20s. I avoided them then, I had nice awesome girlfriends. Those women, however, are now all married and taken. I'm faced with the rotten leftovers I rejected back then, and they are the typical bitter entitled types you see on Match and Craigslist. I'm not deluded enough to think I can get 25 yr old women. I should just give up shouldn't I? The divorce was necessary, but I certainly don't feel like it has allowed me to make a new start. My ex wife (who isn't an awful person) is already dating someone, and he seems okay.

 

Sh*t.

 

 

um you sound pretty bitter yourself...

 

comparison is the root of all evil

[Guest]

:(I'm 38 and recently single again. The only "availble" women are the ones who were miserable, lying, cheating cunts in their teens and 20s.

 

 

Hmmm, that's funny the only men left seem to be those that can't spell and hate women.

 

Perhaps if you weren't so bitter you might be able to see the good in people.

[Tony T]

:(I'm 38 and recently single again. The only "availble" women are the ones who were miserable, lying, cheating cunts in their teens and 20s. I avoided them then, I had nice awesome girlfriends. Those women, however, are now all married and taken. I'm faced with the rotten leftovers I rejected back then, and they are the typical bitter entitled types you see on Match and Craigslist. I'm not deluded enough to think I can get 25 yr old women. I should just give up shouldn't I? The divorce was necessary, but I certainly don't feel like it has allowed me to make a new start. My ex wife (who isn't an awful person) is already dating someone, and he seems okay.

 

Sh*t.

 

Don't be in such a rush...and don't keep up with your ex wife's social life, that's her business. Go out and have fun. Enjoy being by yourself and doing things alone. I unconditionally guarantee that when you least expect it a very nice lady will come into your life...the RIGHT person for you. Now, don't expect she won't have a little bitch in her...they all do and that's necessary. You would not like a 100 percent, pure, sugarsweet partner...take my word for it!

[Gunny376]

You just to work on getting your game together. Good women ~ Hot ones ~ get dumped, divorced, widowed everyday for any number of reasons. Do you think Steve Irwins widow planned on being single at this point in her life?

 

With that said, good women are like finding a good job. Granted the best one's are already taken, the people that have them have had them for a good while, are planning on hanging on to them and you're probally are goig to have to fight them to get them away from them. But, they're out there. And, they're looking for a good man.

 

If you're just getting into it for sex, and looking for a trophy, you're getting into it for all the wrong reasons.

 

You need to re-phrase the question: Ask not what they've got to offer you, but what you've got to offer them. That's a two way street by the way.

 

With your perspective and attitude ~ you're probally driving them away before you even open your mouth. Your body language probally projects your anger, bitterness, and attitude outwardly.

 

You've been out of the game for awhile, and if you're like most men, (such as yours turly) you never were that on top of your game to begin with. Most men marry the first gal that comes along that pays them any attention, and they're not sure of how they got her and when they go through a divorce or separation, they don't know how to go about repeating the process.

 

Goggle David DeAngleo and "Double Your Dating" and check out his programs. Also, Carlos Xuma, and "Secrets Of the Alpha Male"

[ilmw]

Just read your post... and all I can say is Wow!

 

You probably managed to offend the majority of female readers here.

 

You mentioned you are recently single again? You might want to give people on here a little background...why do you think this happen.. and why did it actually happen?

 

Also..your obvious bitterness can be felt in pretty much everthing you wrote...except when you mentioned your ex-wife... Well... that is how I have seen it.

 

Have you taken the time to figure out what happened with your marriage? Have you read any books or been to any counselling?? Stuff like this is good to know.

 

Finally... try and watch the use of the "C" word... I don't know any lady who puts up with its use.

 

Thats all I can think of...so far...keep posting...but calm yourself down.

ilmw

[blind_otter]

Any man that is going to refer to women as "garbage" shouldn't be dating.

 

Well I was going to say...

 

any man that refers to women as CUNTS is probably not going to get laid. Ever.

 

[riobikini]

At least, you're venting some of the anger -and LS is a good place to vent- but I agree that most women are not going to respond to your posts with help and encouragement if you keep using the "C" word (as well as certain others).

 

As for the anger you feel, just judging soley from the tone of your post and the details you provide, you seem to be frustrated with what you are seeing as the "only" available women.

 

That's because you are looking through the eyes of someone who is probably dealing with feelings of being "left behind" or not "included in the loop", right now, in regards to your savvy with dating.

 

Dating is something you'll have to "rediscover". The "do's" and "don't 's " of it always seem to be constantly changing.

 

But let me just say, that absolutely *nothing* has changed in regards to the positive attitude you need to have to be successful with it.

 

And that's clearly something you'll need to work on.

 

Secondly, another thing I want to suggest is -stop comparing your ex-wife's progress with dating with your own progress.

 

I promise you, whether you're happy for her, or not- that will only spur more negative emotions in you.

 

You shouldn't view it as a race to win between you and your ex-wife.

 

Besides, it sounds like you are going to need lots of extra time to straighten out your emotions and attitude towards women, in general, before you are ready for your first "real" singles date.

 

Work out the anger and frustration you are feeling, get really focused and involved in your own, authentic personality-improving makeover program.

 

I guarantee you that, if you get serious enough with yourself -and make the necessary adjustments- you'll have far less trouble, and be in a lot better shape when you are ready to begin dating again.

 

Hope this helps.

 

Take care.

 

-Rio

[Gunny376]

Well I was going to say...

 

any man that refers to women as CUNTS is probably not going to get laid. Ever.

 

Even if the man doesn't directly use the word, but has the attitude that all women are is a VLSS, (Vaginal Life Support System) that attitude is going to come across very strongly.

 

Women aren't stupid, and they've meet guys with this attitude and perception since back in the day. No one wants to be used and abused, and treated like a piece of meat.

 

I had a buddy of mine in the Marines who got picked up by a Japanesse woman, she took him back to her place, basically used and abused him, and when she was done with him, she shoved his clothes and shoes in his chest and told him to get out or she would call the police. She wouldn't even let him get dress, and shoved him not only out of the house, but the court yard into the street, and then slamned the gate door in his face and locked it.

 

He swore he would never use a woman just for his sexual griatification.

 

But, being a single man ~ I kind of like this guys attitude toward women, and encourage other men to have the same. Makes my life a lot of easier!

[blind_otter]

I had a buddy of mine in the Marines who got picked up by a Japanesse woman, she took him back to her place, basically used and abused him, and when she was done with him, she shoved his clothes and shoes in his chest and told him to get out or she would call the police. She wouldn't even let him get dress, and shoved him not only out of the house, but the court yard into the street, and then slamned the gate door in his face and locked it.

 

That's what you get for messin with us LBFMs. ya heard?!

[calalily]

I do believe that you've answered your own question - your wife, and all the other nice women are taken. Only the dregs are single - which by the way, includes you.

[luvtoto]

Only the dregs are single - which by the way, includes you.

Uh, excuse me...I am still single and I am not a dreg. Wait...are we just making up words here?? What is a 'dreg' and what is a 'catherder'?

[calalily]

I am still single and I am not a dreg.

 

I'm sure that you don't think other singles are people you would never be seen dead with etc. as the original poster does. Dreg - the gunk at the bottom of something (dregs of coffee etc.)

[dgiirl]

wow, someone's all high and mighty... if i didnt know any better, i'd think you've never made any mistakes or have no faults of your own... but wait... you're divorced right? Dont be casting any stones.

[Gunny376]

C U N T - doesn't that mean "Cut Up ~ Not Toasted" as in "I'll have a BLT, bacon, lettuce, and tomato sandwich ~ C U N T ~ cut up - not toasted."

 

I think the oringal poster is getting confused with his terms. The one's he looking for is "bitch" and "slut"

 

A slut will sleep with anyone ~ a bitch sleeps with everyone but you! With his attitude ~ I willing to bet he knows a lot of those!

[Lor]

Hmmm....probably the only reason your seeing the "availble" women are the ones who were miserable, lying, cheating cunts in their teens and 20s is because the nice ones like myself who were on Match tended to stay away from guys with attitudes like yours.

 

Gee, with comments like yours I'm seriously amazed you don't have nice women falling all over you...

 

Now, that being said, get over your anger, get over your resentment of women or you will never be able to move on with your life and hopefully find a good woman. But before you go looking for her you'd better straighten your own *ss up cuz no self-respecting good woman will even look at a guy with your attitude.