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Has anyone's boyfriend or hubby ever get interested in swinging all of a sudden?

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Yes. I had a good friend whose husband got interested in swinging. She went along with it because he assured her it would be OK.

 

She's now divorced and he's married to one of the women they were swinging with.

 

Maybe I'm just old-fashioned or something but I personally would never swing. Probably because of what happened to my good friend.

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I knew a spouse that brought home a women to swing with and they ended up separating she turned gay. They are currently back together but things aren't the same as they was. I think when you want to swing it can create alot of conflict in a marriage. The best thing to do is keep it as a fantasy !! JMO

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Has anyone's boyfriend or hubby ever get interested in swinging all of a sudden?

 

No thank God. I am not into sharing and this might have to be a deal-breaker since there could be no compromise on this issue.

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Has anyone's boyfriend or hubby ever get interested in swinging all of a sudden?

Sure, I bought my wife a hammock for her last birthday, she swings in that. I prefer a regular board swing though, more height...

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Looks good, sounds good ~ on paper to some but the damn thing won't ever fly.

 

This is a fantasy, and fantasy seldom if ever matches up to reality.

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Has anyone's boyfriend or hubby ever get interested in swinging all of a sudden?

 

Its so much fun. I took lessons for a couple of months. I only learned the basic steps. Oh wait, we are not referring to the dance are we?:eek:

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Sure, I bought my wife a hammock for her last birthday, she swings in that. I prefer a regular board swing though, more height...

 

:lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao:

 

I also know someone who had an open marriage. She is divorced and her ex is already married to the woman he was having "just sex" with.

 

IMO, "swinging" is consensual cheating. Chances are pretty good he's already sleeping around and wants you to do it too so he's not the bad guy.

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Ugh! I was in an open relationship for 5 years (last 2 married) and it was awful. I suppose if you think of sex as a hobbyist, maybe it could work for you but I personally wasn't built for it and it became a battleground (he actually wanted a "handicap" because as a woman I had a much easier time finding partners!) and the entire focus of the relationship. I have heard it works for some but it is very difficult and unusual.

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