RecordProducer Posted October 1, 2006 Posted October 1, 2006 Take her to a one-day romantic trip to a bed-&-breakfast place where you will have sex, drink wine, cuddle, and walk in the woods/beach all day. The point is to have fun and mark her b/day, not to go on a vacation as if this is the last time... Don't assume too much before you do anything. She might be very content with whatever you offer. If not, you will know that she is indeed demanding. But not before she shows her true colors. Dinner and a present is also good. What does "just started dating" mean? A week ago? A month ago? Three months ago? You can give her a gift card or buy her something that would please her. As a matter of fact, I would ask her what she would like to do/get for her b/day. That will not only give you a good perspective of who she is, but also help you discuss things before anyone is disappointed. You'll get to tell her that you can't go out of town this weekend. After all, a birthday doesn't give anyone the privillege to act like it's only their day and the world should stop spinning on that day for everyone else. You didn't even state whether you really like her a lot on the first place...
Loserdude Posted October 2, 2006 Posted October 2, 2006 I dont know what to do.. I feel maybe i should do nothing and forget the entire relationship? Maybe taking her out to dinner would be a waste , and i would now feel like she is expecting more and I didnt deliver. Well, this is a bit defeatist but you can use it to your advantage. if you are this ready to throw in the towell, then just tell her basically what you posted here - too soon, not a good time, etc. See what happens. I find that when I get jammed up on something like this, by talking about it i usually find out that the woman is really cool about it and then we get closer... I realize the weekend is over so this may be moot.
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