redial1 Posted September 27, 2006 Posted September 27, 2006 Need either a kick to the head or some great advice...My relationship started three years ago to a man who is 22 years older. Married three times with five children. Actually I learned from the horses mouth only twice married, but non the less all three women have children by him. So who cares right, but my problem lays with his last ex wife. I'm excluded from all conversations or dealings he has with her, he even hired her for a whole year before telling me....bluh it makes me sick thinking of this, but he has the gull to get mad at me for being so upset with the whole situation. He credits the fact that she is the mother of his kids and thats why he owes it to her to always make her happy, while I cry. I know I have been second to this woman. I would have never entered this relationship if I'd known he has such a great relationship with her. But actually they were seperated three years before I met the guy and he told me he seen her no more then 10 minutes, but somewhere in the past three years the relationship bloomed. He helps her through her relationship problems, talking on the phone for hours about everything from funny to sad and also about the kids who are 16 and 15. But calls 3 to 5 times aday. My head hurts and I'm sooo depressed. ps. Christmas time is spent with the second ex....I don't go on those trips anymore.
almostthere Posted September 27, 2006 Posted September 27, 2006 And you are still with him? there is nothing worse then feeling second. in any other aspect of your life do you allow people to treat you badly or be ignorant to your feelings? Do you really think it is worth it? Do you ever wonder if you shoud be involved with someone with that bad of a track record? I suppose if it isnt his fault its better but having your ex be like your best friend is pretty bad. no thanks.... I would tell him to go back to her...your done with me!! Sorry I cannot be more positive but this just sounds like it is set up for failure.
tikigods Posted September 27, 2006 Posted September 27, 2006 22 and 5 children?! 3 wives!? This guy sounds like he is just a walking red flag. The fact that he isn't divorced and still on very good terms with his ex would make me run in the other direction
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