l2hvn Posted September 29, 2006 Posted September 29, 2006 You know... I was going to say bamaboy's looks are okay. But then those captions in photos, and the way he reacted to people's opinion just about threw me off. If you don't like who you are, no one else will. Confidence is sexy. So you seriously need to work on that. No woman will be attracted to someone who doesn't think he's worth it. You're pretty young. Loveshackers are actually giving you some good advice. Not every person you'll meet will be nice to you. Especially if you live in a bigger city.
Author Bamaboy2006 Posted September 29, 2006 Author Posted September 29, 2006 Ok fine then cut me down as much as yall wish I dont care Are ya happy now?
Ross_K Posted September 29, 2006 Posted September 29, 2006 I really don't think you're seeing things for how they are. No one wants to 'cut anybody down'. I know I certainly don't anyway, unless they deserve it.
a4a Posted September 29, 2006 Posted September 29, 2006 Ok fine then cut me down as much as yall wish I dont care Are ya happy now? I am quite happy today thank you. And how are you? I hope that you too are enjoying this fine day. I believe I am getting out of this office in about 10 minutes and going to have a joy filled weekend. Do you have any plans for this weekend?
Author Bamaboy2006 Posted September 29, 2006 Author Posted September 29, 2006 Well regardless if they are or not my point is this, Im not gonna let myself be ran over by some cheap cutdowns, some of the things certainly seem like they are cutdowns though they may not be but they sure do seem like it, and if their goal is to make me feel real low and even more down on myself it failed MISERABLY.
SmoochieFace Posted September 29, 2006 Posted September 29, 2006 Well regardless if they are or not my point is this, Im not gonna let myself be ran over by some cheap cutdowns, some of the things certainly seem like they are cutdowns though they may not be but they sure do seem like it, and if their goal is to make me feel real low and even more down on myself it failed MISERABLY. The best way to deal with those who are 'yanking your chain' is to simply not deal with them. Ignoring them works best. As long as you continue to give them ammunition - as in responding to their drivel - they will succeed. Something to think about...
a4a Posted September 29, 2006 Posted September 29, 2006 Well regardless if they are or not my point is this, Im not gonna let myself be ran over by some cheap cutdowns, some of the things certainly seem like they are cutdowns though they may not be but they sure do seem like it, and if their goal is to make me feel real low and even more down on myself it failed MISERABLY. any relation to John or Marc...... do you find bleach to be of much intrigue? Why do you keep coming back here then. Attention? Dude just get a nice haircut...... any guy even with purple hair should do that. and loose the tude. Now to be blunt the limo pic was not bad but the band camp one made ya look a little like Ronald McDonald......hair way way too bushy.
Author Bamaboy2006 Posted September 29, 2006 Author Posted September 29, 2006 so what? i cant help it that it does that it was hot that day my hair just completely goes haywire. Im about to the the point if ya dont have anything nice to say Im just not gonna bother with ya anymore. I cant say for sure but it just seems liek considering how many time some people have rplied such as alphamale and a couple of others that they are trying to get me ill and aggrevated. I mean it would be totally different if it was just one or two replies but they kept on and on about it so i know that they were definitely trying to upset me. If ya wanna say i need complete plastic surgery fine, if ya wanna say im too dang ugly for anything thats fine too. Once it gets to the point that you do it over and over again thats when it starts to peeve me off. Had those people just kept it to one or two comments i would not have gotten so riled up. But they just KEPT ON AND ON and by gosh I refuse to let myself be a freakin rug to be stomped on by these people.
a4a Posted September 29, 2006 Posted September 29, 2006 so don't get your hair cut. I don't care. no skin off my nuts.
SmoochieFace Posted September 29, 2006 Posted September 29, 2006 so don't get your hair cut. I don't care. no skin off my nuts. I'm glad some people find this funny. I feel as if I am back in junior high... where are the adults?
SmoochieFace Posted September 29, 2006 Posted September 29, 2006 I'd like to re-examin your question about could looks be your problem. No your great looking, you must have great genes. Have you ever considered modeling. Well if you have a problem I can tell by your pictures its definetly not looks because your perfect and anything critical any one says about something thats perfect is just wrong. Maybe you smell bad, maybe thats your problem you cant see smell in a picture. But even if you did smell like pooh all day your so damn good looking girls still would flock to you. Well after seeing your picture and hereing your question I'm stupified, did you ask as a joke just so we'd all write back and say how great you are, because you are great, I bet your farts smell like fresh baked cinamon buns your so great. Hey I'm sorry for anything I might have written before this that might have made it sound like you werent gods gift to man kind you are a true Adonus. A romance novel would be a best seller if they just put ;you on the cover. I'm sure I'll see you in movies or something one day because your so perfect so I just want to let you know its been an honor posting on your thread sir. I'm curious as to how old you are?
Ross_K Posted September 29, 2006 Posted September 29, 2006 Well regardless if they are or not my point is this, Im not gonna let myself be ran over by some cheap cutdowns, some of the things certainly seem like they are cutdowns though they may not be but they sure do seem like it, and if their goal is to make me feel real low and even more down on myself it failed MISERABLY. Yeah but you're acting like you're getting ran over and being made to feel bad. Thing is, I've never seen anyone be horrible to you.
SmoochieFace Posted September 29, 2006 Posted September 29, 2006 Yeah but you're acting like you're getting ran over and being made to feel bad. Thing is, I've never seen anyone be horrible to you. Perhaps you can lend us your opinion on this: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showpost.php?p=931139&postcount=35
Ross_K Posted September 29, 2006 Posted September 29, 2006 Quite a lot of text there, I'll probably read it some other day.
Jizzosh Posted September 29, 2006 Posted September 29, 2006 I'm a guy, so let's just say I'm glad I don't look like you. Least I'm honest, but I don't know how a girl's mind thinks. It might be your looks, but it's probably moreso your personality. If you always bring yourself down, you're gonna bring the people around you down and no one will really like hanging around you. You better change your personality before you even think about looks. Just teach yourself to think positively about everything.
pricillia Posted October 1, 2006 Posted October 1, 2006 Wow, I read all of the back and forth between the posters. Bamaboy you posted a question and people gave opinions on how they felt. Not everyone is going to give you the answer that you are looking for, sometimes as you will learn when you aske advice from friends, family or even strangers as you have here you are going to tell you things that are hard to hear. You had some guts to come here to post your picture and ask the questions that you did. You have to learn that in life you are going to have to deal with different personalities and that is just a fact. so... You can either develop a thicker skin or you can let in penetrate, you choose. I know that it is not easy. I just dont think that anyone here owes you anything based on you feeling sorry for your self. It is a tough world out there, so deal with it. Listen you asked if looks were your problem, right ( think about it) and we gave you our opinion, I hardly think that if someone tells you to get a hair cut, it should make you bleed. You are young and sensitive, and that is ok, just try for this not to get the best of you. As far as finding advice on the internet, I personally am glad that I found this site, I have gotten compassion, empathy, and sometimes a lashing, but you have to take it with stride and learn from it.. ok I'm done...
Author Bamaboy2006 Posted October 1, 2006 Author Posted October 1, 2006 alright well then ill just shut up.
pricillia Posted October 1, 2006 Posted October 1, 2006 alright well then ill just shut up. confused eek... Looks are not your problem, your lack of confidence and you attitude are. Maybe you should talk to a professional about this, like someone like a life coach. Have you ever seen the tv show made? I think that you would be a good candidate for something like that.
Marielle Posted October 1, 2006 Posted October 1, 2006 Hey I just want to say, regardless of your looks..What you did is put you on the spot...and many of these ppl where actually really offensive, I DO agree. I m sure even me I put a pic of me and ppl will start to see my flaws, that's the first thing ppl see, that's how we are wired. Try not to take it personally...I m sure some of the negative posters are pretty ugly, or lack self confidence Lesson: Do never put your pic and ask approval on the net, or do it on "hot or not" where you can get your pic to get rated, and you see numbers, not opinions. Obviously anyone would take pleasantly being critizised that way on the looks...no one!!! Even the most self confident ppl. My brother is a red head, and he always, not only had success with woman, but all his girlfriends where incredibly beautiful...his current wife looks like a model!!! It's his attitude and carisma that does that WOman we are attracted to personality, assertiveness, and carisma Hope it helps
Author Bamaboy2006 Posted October 1, 2006 Author Posted October 1, 2006 confused eek... Looks are not your problem, your lack of confidence and you attitude are. Maybe you should talk to a professional about this, like someone like a life coach. Have you ever seen the tv show made? I think that you would be a good candidate for something like that. Maybe so, but wouldnt that appear to be an act of desparation to some people?
pricillia Posted October 1, 2006 Posted October 1, 2006 Maybe so, but wouldnt that appear to be an act of desparation to some people? No not at all, I am sure that this site has been an eye opener for you. You have to learn not to care what other people think, you can not please everyone.
Author Bamaboy2006 Posted October 1, 2006 Author Posted October 1, 2006 Thats true too, well Im gonna do what I am most comfortable with, go along with it and try that and see how that works. Not going to change any apperance about me. I am just going to be me, plain and simple, and if people dont like it then thats just tough ca ca
Author Bamaboy2006 Posted October 1, 2006 Author Posted October 1, 2006 I may have dobule posted because my comp was being a douchebag, but then again it may not have, just letting ya know in case.
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