BrainRightHeartWrong Posted September 26, 2006 Posted September 26, 2006 Its been nearly a year since my breakup but i hope this helps some people out there who are worried they won't get over their ex... A while ago i was devastated that whom i thought was the one finished with me with no explanation... trust me i went through hell as i spoke to people who knew her about her and eventually learnt that she is nothing but a low life alcoholic whore i really am relieved nowadays that i didn't end up with someone like that... i gave her too much leeway... e.g. she even said if she was pregnant that she would still drink a lot! a while ago i missed her like crazy... now i cannot stand the sight of her... she is hard to avoid and she has tried to speak to me and i completely blank her... i still talk to her brother and others and completely blank her... it feels good and i feel the need to do it i like a lot of people here deserve better and nowadays i wouldn't give her the pleasure of my company! someday i hope she feels the pain that she has caused me and others that i now know about... i will laugh when it happens!
Guest Posted September 27, 2006 Posted September 27, 2006 I too was in the same boat as you - on here a year ago pouring my heart out, wanting him back, doing no contact - all that crap............. He came back - things never improved just got worse and I finally ended it and never looked back. It gets to a point where you get fed up, fall out of love and get disgusted with all the fighting and repeated attempts at reconciliation that end up going nowhere - then you finally let go. Now I look back and go "What was I thinking?". When I think of my ex now I literally insert finger in mouth and want to barf. I'm at a good place! I've OVER him! Yuk, what did I ever see in him to begin with? Why did I waste all that time worrying and wanting him back!!?????? He's gross and if I saw him now I'd just want to throw rocks at him. So I'm offically over him and now reading all of everyone's posts who are going thru what I went thru. My advice? Get over them and MOVE ON!!!! Save yourself further agony and stop wasting valuable time. Find someone better!!!
loveinlife Posted September 27, 2006 Posted September 27, 2006 Im glad you guys are over them. Best wishes!
Ruff Ryder Posted October 1, 2006 Posted October 1, 2006 BRHW - Whats up mate long time. Glad you doing well man. I remember your story as clear as day man. Well you seem strong. Me too everything sorted with me aswell. Its the streanth of us IRISH lads..... Well Im very happy and proud of you man your doing well. Good man stay strong ok?
Rooster_DAR Posted October 1, 2006 Posted October 1, 2006 This is why people need to understand, when breakups or seperation occurs it's usually over for good. Seperations rarely beget reconciliation.
Ruff Ryder Posted October 3, 2006 Posted October 3, 2006 A break up is just that a break up. Live and learn from it. You cant change the past so why bother living in it? Make plans for tomorrow and live it to the max.
Author BrainRightHeartWrong Posted October 5, 2006 Author Posted October 5, 2006 Reconciliation is a joke for me nowadays... i would NEVER want her back It takes time though to get through all the horrible crap and come out the other end and realise that you are better off without them... horrible cliche but TIME HEALS! it never offers any good to people going through this hell but it is true! Life just has to go on and it will eventually get better, i had a friend commit suicide last year ( the same day i attended his funeral my ex dumped me, so what kind of a disgusting human being does that? ) , i really wish he hadn't done that as it was over his breakup... a nice guy he was and i miss him... i remember he and I had a discussion about relationships and how women can really get to you!!!!!! Anyhow Ruff Ryder good to hear from you, you sound like you are doing good also, hope you're still playing tunes on guitar, i'm officially at last attending irish folk music classes learning DADGAD tuning to everyone else DLTBGYD! (Don't let the Bystanders get you down!)
Rooster_DAR Posted October 5, 2006 Posted October 5, 2006 Reconciliation is a joke for me nowadays... i would NEVER want her back It takes time though to get through all the horrible crap and come out the other end and realise that you are better off without them... horrible cliche but TIME HEALS! it never offers any good to people going through this hell but it is true! Life just has to go on and it will eventually get better, i had a friend commit suicide last year ( the same day i attended his funeral my ex dumped me, so what kind of a disgusting human being does that? ) , i really wish he hadn't done that as it was over his breakup... a nice guy he was and i miss him... i remember he and I had a discussion about relationships and how women can really get to you!!!!!! Anyhow Ruff Ryder good to hear from you, you sound like you are doing good also, hope you're still playing tunes on guitar, i'm officially at last attending irish folk music classes learning DADGAD tuning to everyone else DLTBGYD! (Don't let the Bystanders get you down!) I too had a best friend that killed himself over a woman that kept straying. I understand that nobody is worth that, but it still kinda gets to ya. BTW I play guitar too, I used to play in a rock band here in San Antonio for years. Cya
Ruff Ryder Posted October 7, 2006 Posted October 7, 2006 Yea im still rocking the guitar. Good news Im much much much better and leaving this country to go to England and home IRLAND. Glad to hear you still with the music. Ill send you my mail addy and when Im in town ill drop you a line for a good old kilkeny or guiness and a jaming session. So glad to hear your well mate.
whichwayisup Posted October 8, 2006 Posted October 8, 2006 Hey! Nice to hear from ya! Good for you that you've moved on and not caught up in the mess of emotions anymore.
Ruff Ryder Posted October 10, 2006 Posted October 10, 2006 Hey wwu thats a nick that I havent seen around for a while.... Maybe I havent been looking hard enough. How you keeping? Hopw all is well. Good to see the nick again.
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