Green Posted September 26, 2006 Posted September 26, 2006 If I want to ask a girl out through a text message because thats all this person seems to respond to how should I do it please give me exactly what I should write, I was thinking of Texting her something like "I want to see you" or "Lets go out" ...."lets do something" well let me know what you guys think or if you have a better one.
alphamale Posted September 26, 2006 Posted September 26, 2006 sorry to be blunt, but if you can't figure this out your chances of getting a date with her are close to zero.
Author Green Posted September 26, 2006 Author Posted September 26, 2006 I've figured that out but I dont care I'll ask any ways through a text and see what happens. Theres factors I didnt go into alpha like the fact that this girl has always been like this for the short few months of known her but I've slept with her twice. point is I know its not good but what do I have to lose I just need a good text msg so I can get her again some ones got to have a good stock msg for me to use something cool...
Art_Critic Posted September 26, 2006 Posted September 26, 2006 If you ask her out thru a text msg then get ready to get dumped by text msg..
The slayer Posted September 26, 2006 Posted September 26, 2006 I've figured that out but I dont care I'll ask any ways through a text and see what happens. Theres factors I didnt go into alpha like the fact that this girl has always been like this for the short few months of known her but I've slept with her twice. point is I know its not good but what do I have to lose I just need a good text msg so I can get her again some ones got to have a good stock msg for me to use something cool... Under the circumstances you describe, I'd suggest "Fancy a F***?"
alphamale Posted September 26, 2006 Posted September 26, 2006 but I've slept with her twice. you have not slept with her at all. if you had then you wouldn't be having this problem. stop lying...
Art_Critic Posted September 26, 2006 Posted September 26, 2006 you have not slept with her at all. if you had then you wouldn't be having this problem. stop lying... I'm gonna agree with Alpha on this one.. unless it was just in the same room that you slept with her There isn't a text msg in the world that will get you a woman unless you had already set the foundation thru either phone calls or chatting with her... and even then you would know what to write in that case
whichwayisup Posted September 26, 2006 Posted September 26, 2006 If you ask her out thru a text msg then get ready to get dumped by text msg.. Excellent point by the clown...
Fun2BMe Posted September 26, 2006 Posted September 26, 2006 If you ask her out thru a text msg then get ready to get dumped by text msg.. Those are true and wise words. I've done that myself twice but am realizing some people don't like to have things end via email, text or like 2 bf's ago even by phone. I'm not sure what the big deal is. If someone wants to end a relationship, they have had it and whichever way is used to communicate it is the same thing. Instead of a long "Are you free Friday night, if so maybe I can pick you up and we can go out to xyz" Simply text her "r u free 2nite?" If she says yes then suggest something like "dinner?" or if she says no she might provide you with an alternate date that she will be available. If she just says no and leaves it at that, or doesn't bother responding at all, then you have your answer on her interest level and can move along.
Author Green Posted September 26, 2006 Author Posted September 26, 2006 Thank You very much Fun2beme.Alpha and Artcritic I did screw this girl twice believe it, I want to make it thrice. I think this girl just really likes to text so thats what I'm going to do the short but sweet message asking her out she can take it or leave it
CrushedOrgans Posted September 26, 2006 Posted September 26, 2006 I did screw this girl twice believe it, I want to make it thrice. oh lord, this poor girl. anyway, regardless if you really have slept with her twice or not, you've known her several months and the only way she'll respond is through texting... that's not only silly, but it's not a good sign. move on.
Fun2BMe Posted September 26, 2006 Posted September 26, 2006 oh lord, this poor girl. anyway, regardless if you really have slept with her twice or not, you've known her several months and the only way she'll respond is through texting... that's not only silly, but it's not a good sign. move on. I don't think he's wanting anything more than a screw, and obviously she doesn't either. She doesn't even want to talk to him:laugh: So let us know how the texts go and if it leads to a 3rd time. Ideally things will progress more but take it one text and screw at a time. That sounds so crude but to each their own.
alphamale Posted September 27, 2006 Posted September 27, 2006 I don't think he's wanting anything more than a screw, and obviously she doesn't either. She doesn't even want to talk to him:laugh: So let us know how the texts go and if it leads to a 3rd time. Ideally things will progress more but take it one text and screw at a time. That sounds so crude but to each their own. why don't they just have "text sex" ...maybe that will make everyone happy
monkey00 Posted September 27, 2006 Posted September 27, 2006 it's far too easy to ignore text messages..easy grounds for rejection. I recommend asking by phone. But hey do what you will, its your choice.
Author Green Posted September 27, 2006 Author Posted September 27, 2006 Well Fun2BeMe Thank you very much, I sent a txt with exactly what you told me to write "R U free 2nite" or something like that. She replied back "I have a lot of hw 2night but i am free this weekend". So it kind of went as good as it could have so far. I still have the original problem that she rarely if ever answers her phone and txt'ing is the only way I can get in contact with her but if all goes well it sounds like things are on for this weekend. So oh yeahh
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