joel Posted September 26, 2006 Posted September 26, 2006 ok what the heck is with this girl , ok heres the story. met this girl named Karen off the net, first date date was as usual we met a Richmond Centre -food court and then walked around the mall. tell u the truth this girl seems nice. we went out for 2 months ,but only once a week , as i live out UBC area and she lives in Richmond,BC area and i have no car. have you guys or even girl ever dated or been in a relationship wtih a so called selfish girl before-meaning she wants you to come out to her area, but isn't even at all willing to come half way and make it convient for you-this is b/c i have no car and if i did i would't always go to her area-its an 1 hr 20 min bus ride. but the thing is when u ask her to come out half way-lets say to downtown vancouver-she gives a hestitant answer , like she reluctant to meet you there. What a self fish girl. this happened for 2 months and like 10 to 1, and that one time she met me she was late and was like ah i don't now where the Central library is ah and had hard time finding Robson ST lol. Even my friend from BBy nows Central library and Robson St. when we go out and eat at the end i would pay, which wasn't much its was like 13 bucks on her part, and she saying thanks , then she'll say i get the ice cream, when we go there and its come to paying she waits and witht he corner of her eye she looking at me like "ah i still expect you to pay". i'm like in my mind yea right i already paid for ur dinner. if your going say your gonna pay for the ice cream - since i did pay for your dinner, then do it. man even if i had a car i doubt i be driving her around and going all the way out to Richmond , jsut to see her, i mean she'll have to make a effort to come to a place more convient for me too. i mean what happened with me was i went out to her area like i said 10 to 1-bus ride 1 hr 10-20 minutes. Even if i had a car , i wouldnt be able to get a nice vehicle and with gas prices so high its like come on, be more considerate. She at time would even make a fuss about me not having a car-"when are you going to get a car", "can you afford a car", "too bad you can't come out and watch the 12 midnight showing of Pirate of Carribeans -, you don't have a car" .....etc...ok ok i just finish College and jsut started working now how the heckl you expect me to get a car. my folks aren't goin buy me one. man i glad this girl ended the dating / relationship with me, thinkin now i'm so happy hey guys what do you think, advice , comments and suggestions, ever had this type of selfish girl
bluechocolate Posted September 26, 2006 Posted September 26, 2006 What I found amusing about this was that at the end it was her doing the breaking up, not you. That makes what came before it seem like nothing but sour grapes on your part. After all, it was you doing the traveling 10 times to her every one. You should have established from the start that you would swap turns on the traveling, that might have just ended it before it even began.
CrushedOrgans Posted September 26, 2006 Posted September 26, 2006 You went to college? hay, that wuz my question man i hate when people doo that because then i dont get tuh ask it first and man she is self fish.
filiasan Posted September 27, 2006 Posted September 27, 2006 Man, that sucks. The car thing is important. But, did she have to rub it in your face!?! Sounds like she's a real "catch" (HA!). I know how it is to not have a car/not be able to drive. I also know how it is to have so-called friends who expect you to provide your own transportation.
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