I Still Love This Man.

[GUEST (chicago)]

hi! im from china! but ive lived in America since i was a sophomore. im a senior now.

well, seriously i was wondering why many boys like asian girls:( every time i hear they say "asian girls are so pretty!", im like "hello!! there are many many hotties in white and black people.

anyways i have a reason why i talked about it!

 

well, i had a boyfriend who was the nicest man ever. and we got together 3days after wed got to know. that was sooo fast!! but we broke up soon with no reason i guess:( when we first met was during summer break, i mean i live far away from him. so when summer was over, we couldnt see much... but i belived him so i thought it was okay but it wasnt. suddenly, he stopped to email me so i was so afraid of calling him. so i couldnt. and as time went by, i began to think that he probably doent even remember me! that makes me cry... and ive recently found that he got a new girlfriend, which makes me really really sad and i can hardly sleep or eat.

 

i dont think its a good way to tell him that i still love him. i dont wanna be a bitch. but i dont know what i should do. i know theres nothing i can do but i think its too hard. maybe he was the boy who likes asians. so he was really nice to me and when he couldnt see my face he found he didnt need me anymore. do you know why i think like that?? because i had a similar exparience like this. at that time, he(my ex ex) said he liked my face because im asian. but thats it! that was really hard and it, what is now happening, is really really, i think much harder for me. i need your advice to get out of this tragedy... if i cant, i dont think ill ever believe any guys...

[norajane]

It's not a tragedy! You're just starting to date, so really, you have lots of time ahead of you to get to know some great guys.

 

If this guy has a girlfriend and you live far from each other, forget him. The longer you think about him, the longer it will take for you to open your eyes and notice another guy who might be interested in you and that you think is interesting.

 

Enjoy your life, enjoy doing the things that make you happy and that you think are fun. You will meet someone in a club that you are involved in, or your classes, or another activity.