sapphire0903 Posted September 26, 2006 Posted September 26, 2006 Hi everyone! I just had a little break through. Last Wednesday, my friends and I spent the weekend at the beach and had a very relaxing time during the day and danced all night. I met two men, one separated, and lived in Michigan the other one was close to where I live and SINGLE. I exchanged phone numbers and have talked to both of them and glad to know that I felt good about it, I did not feel sad because of MM even though I thought of MM alot. Well, then last night, MM called and stopped by my place. He is moving out of his apartment, and called to bring some things by that he knew I needed that he does not need any longer. (Nice guy huh) Anyways, he kisses me a couple of times, and hugs me, but guess what, it did not devastate me!! It did not keep me awake at night wondering. I think I have finally convinced myself that "You know, you are DIVORCED and you can DATE!!!" I feel good about this, and I hope I can keep myself "detached" enough to keep him as my friend. He really is such a cool person, I don't want to completely let him go, but I want to give him enough space to make the decisions he needs to make. I will not waiver from placing my needs first though, I know I dont want to be alone, however I don't want to lower my standards for just anybody. Maybe I am learning a lesson after all. Thanks for listening........... It helps!!!
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