Guest Posted September 26, 2006 Posted September 26, 2006 We've been together for two months now. Everything was great up until a week ago. I felt that she was not affectionate as she used to be in the beginning. We had a talk tonight and she told me that she was, kind of locking herself during the last few days. The reason was, she explained, that i now expect her to be so affectionate as she used to be. I cannot really understand that. Her behaviour to me made me expect some things and now she is telling me that she is not behaving the same way because i expect that. ????? Any advice what to do???
Ripples Posted September 26, 2006 Posted September 26, 2006 Maybe she feels taken for granted, that because you expect it, she feels that you no longer appreciate it. Maybe she feels this way because you no longer do the things you used to, either.
littlekitty Posted September 26, 2006 Posted September 26, 2006 Maybe she feels taken for granted, that because you expect it, she feels that you no longer appreciate it. Maybe she feels this way because you no longer do the things you used to, either. I think Ripples has it here! At least that was the best I could make of what she said. Try making her feel special and appreciated, without expecting too much back initially.
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