Guest Posted September 26, 2006 Posted September 26, 2006 Ok, I'll start from scratch, I've known this girl for about 1 1/2 years, the first time I met her, I usually made her laugh. She sometimes says rude things, but most of the time, she says nice and sweet comments. I didn't like her much until this year. She even asked me to pick her up after her practice. But then suddenly she said she didn't need to be picked up from practice, and all she needs is a ride home. O, yah she also huged me when I said yes . But now, she doesn't even talk to me anymore. I also see her old boyfriend near her now. So does this mean she doesn't like me anymore and she wants me to not talk to her or something? (Also, when she hugs me, I didn't do anything, I just stood there like a boiling broccoli.) Bad move I guess
norajane Posted September 26, 2006 Posted September 26, 2006 If she's not talking to you and if her old boyfriend is around again, then there's nothing for you there.
Guest Posted September 27, 2006 Posted September 27, 2006 Ok, I'll start from scratch, I've known this girl for about 1 1/2 years, the first time I met her, I usually made her laugh. She sometimes says rude things, but most of the time, she says nice and sweet comments. I didn't like her much until this year. She even asked me to pick her up after her practice. But then suddenly she said she didn't need to be picked up from practice, and all she needs is a ride home. O, yah she also huged me when I said yes . But now, she doesn't even talk to me anymore. I also see her old boyfriend near her now. So does this mean she doesn't like me anymore and she wants me to not talk to her or something? (Also, when she hugs me, I didn't do anything, I just stood there like a boiling broccoli.) Bad move I guess Same thing is happening with me but i'm the girl and you are the guy.... there is this guy i think he likes me.. (not too sure)..... and i like him too.. What i am doing to my guy is like what this girl's doing to you... I ask him to give me rides so i can be alone in the car with him and i gave him cute quick hugs to say thanks as well...(really that's just a hint that i don't mind to be close to him) Have a think about has she ever said anything or did anything to create an opportunity for you to ask her out? like i have tried on my guy, "i'm so hungry !oh..pizza hut!" as we drove pass pizza hut.(the respond i got was "oh i like pizza hut too, we went last week.") does she seems to be closer friend with you, for say she is a part of your group of friends...? Not sure but she might felt the same way as i do right now!!! wanted to give up on this guy coz i have tried to give him so many hints and he's not doing anything!!! it's getting to a point now i don't think he likes me in that kind of way.. I can tell you a girl wouldn't chose to give you a hug if she didn't feel she can be close to you.... Even though if her old boyfriend is back, does it matter??? are they back together... are you sure they are back together? (if she's going back with her boyfriend) she must have felt that she's too close or friendly with you for her to stop talking to you because of her boyfriend. Are you shy??? what does she have to do or say for you to ask her out???? let me know!!!
typical Posted September 27, 2006 Posted September 27, 2006 like a boiling broccoli.) :laugh: That was cute...Now how about you take the initiative and talk to her? From that point, you should be able to gather whether she just used you for a ride, or she was really interested in you.
M5315 Posted September 27, 2006 Posted September 27, 2006 I would definatly like it if the girl would just talk to me alone, and say to me she likes me. And yes I am a very very very very very shy person.
Guest pizza hut Posted October 2, 2006 Posted October 2, 2006 Wait, is she using my for a ride ? well i asked for rides but i am not using my guy, like i said before i was making opportunities to talk to him alone.... can't speak for your girl though... but has she ever touched you before... like touching you arms etc? has she flirt with you before? pizza girl
M5315 Posted October 2, 2006 Posted October 2, 2006 I remember she hugged me last year, and I don't know why, and this year, she hugged me when I agreed to give her a ride.
Jizzosh Posted October 2, 2006 Posted October 2, 2006 Lol. You generally want to hug a girl back if she hugs you, especially if you got feelings for her. That's not gonna be a deciding factor though, just remember it for next time. I doubt she doesn't want to not talk to you, but she won't go out of her way to talk to you. If you know a girl pretty well and she likes you, she's not gonna just not talk to you. Looks like she doesn't really harbor any feleings for you. Oh, and she hugged you for that? Not trying to be harsh dude, but girls give guys hugs, that's what they do. It doesn't mean they like you if they hug you. I'm thinking a girl will hug you a lot if she likes you.
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