ImmaBeAlright Posted September 25, 2006 Posted September 25, 2006 Ok, this was the update a few days ago: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t99845/ Yes! No more reading signals, no more reading cryptic messages, no more wondering, no more. He said it. He is coming here in a month and a half because he wants to work it out. He has been thinking and knows that we can, that is, if I would like to. I was thinking: What??? If I would like to??? Are you kidding me??? Of course I did not say this to him . Not only but he has decided that in order for it to work he is moving from VA to here for six months. I'm ecstatic!!! My heart feels like its about to burst. I wish it doesnt, then I'll be dead long before he gets here. I am sorry for posting this on this coping board but this is where my story has been unfolding.
loveinlife Posted September 25, 2006 Posted September 25, 2006 Good news for you. I am happy that you two are working out and that you are feeling great at this moment. I was wondering how did this come about? Were you two friends after the breakup? When was the breakup? And how long was the relationship together? Congratulations ImmaBeAlright!
Author ImmaBeAlright Posted September 25, 2006 Author Posted September 25, 2006 Good news for you. I am happy that you two are working out and that you are feeling great at this moment. I was wondering how did this come about? Were you two friends after the breakup? When was the breakup? Congratulations ImmaBeAlright! It started with him wanting a 'break'. The break lasted about a month where for a week I obsessively called, IMed and Emailed him. Like most breaks, the break turned into a Break up. After the breakup, I did straight NC, for about a month. After that, he would contact me no long talks, just asking about something of his. I was always quite reserved then when we would talk, not because I was playing a game, but because I didnt want to get used to him and stuff. It has only been in the last 3 weeks that we have been talking, long fun talks, once in a while. He initially expressed wanting to be friends and it went on from there. The break up, if you include the break was about 3 months and some.
loveinlife Posted September 25, 2006 Posted September 25, 2006 I guess like they always say somethings are meant to be. The break might of been great for the both of you to realize the problems that was in the relationship and trying to make it work out. Nice to hear you are doing so well. Best Wishes!
Mollyanna Posted September 26, 2006 Posted September 26, 2006 I am so happy to hear from someone on here that has GOOD news! I wish you the very best of luck in your relationship. I hope the time apart only makes your bond stronger.
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