Luvshoes Posted September 24, 2006 Posted September 24, 2006 I have recently become reacquainted with a guy I met over a year ago. When we met he was married, so of course I stayed away, however he is now going through a divorce and I am extremely interested in pursuing a relationship with him. I don't know him very well, but what I do know, I like and find myself wanting to know more and more about him. He seems interested, and whenever I am around him (about 4 times over the last 2 weeks) he really really seems interested, but we haven't made it to the "going out" stage yet. I want to be patient with him because I know he is going through a rough patch balancing the divorce and remaining a committed father to his 2 children. The last thing I want to do is push him, but how do I know what is too much too soon. I want to invite him out as friends just to begin to get to know him better, but how do I know if I should let him make the first move or should I take the "bull by the horns" and invite him out?
Art_Critic Posted September 24, 2006 Posted September 24, 2006 or should I take the "bull by the horns" and invite him out? This one... I will say though that after my divorce I was undateable for 6 months to a year afterwards and the dates or GF's I had during that time were my rebounds.. I'm not saying that you would be his rebound.. but he most likely will have one. Sometimes relationships right after divorce work out.. so I say go for it.. just use your head and go into it with your eyes open Good Luck
amaysngrace Posted September 24, 2006 Posted September 24, 2006 I will say though that after my divorce I was undateable for 6 months to a year afterwards and the dates or GF's I had during that time were my rebounds.. Agreed. I'm just realizing this too, that my current BF is just that...a rebound. And I'm most likely his as well.
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