mac007 Posted September 24, 2006 Posted September 24, 2006 i work with this female. we went out on a couple of dates. we had sex. a long story short. she said that I did a sneaky thing to her. I know she forgives me because her body language is letting me know this, but we still haven't talked and it has been a couple of weeks. can anybody tell me what might be going through her head. I really can't talk to her because it is at work, and i don't want to call her either. i am her co-worker. thanks for any advice.
superconductor Posted September 24, 2006 Posted September 24, 2006 A sneaky thing by having sex? Last I heard, sex involved two people, and unless you forced yourself on her, you have nothing to apologize for and there's nothing to be forgiven.
Cheshire Cat Posted September 24, 2006 Posted September 24, 2006 Perhaps she is still interested in you and she is hoping for an apology - or for a declaration of love?! Tell us more. Are you interested in pursuing a relationship with her? Are you interested in pursuing her? Are you hoping you'll be eventually able to pretend that nothing happened? What is this sneaky thing you did to her? Are you sure you interpreted her body language correctly?
mac007 Posted September 24, 2006 Posted September 24, 2006 i think she is interested in me because we spent all summer together. i think i did interpret her body language because i talked to her about body language before. i like to go furhter with her in the relationship with her. the thing is i work with her. i don't want to even come close to sex..harrasment or job interference with her. i rather not say the sneaky thing what i did. i just happen to do the same thing to her what she did to me. she is using the weapon of, "not talking to me." and it is the waiting game now. who is going to speak first. i went first to speak with her, but i think it was too soon for her to thing it out, but her body language is giving me clues that it will be ok.
pricillia Posted September 24, 2006 Posted September 24, 2006 I not i... anyway, how can we help if you don't tell us the sneaky thing that you did.. We need more information
amaysngrace Posted September 24, 2006 Posted September 24, 2006 she said that I did a sneaky thing to her. Sounds like she feels guilty for sleeping with you so soon, and casually blames you. But she wants to sleep with you again.
pricillia Posted September 24, 2006 Posted September 24, 2006 Sounds like she feels guilty for sleeping with you so soon, and casually blames you. But she wants to sleep with you again. hugh? Do it to me one more time once is never enough with a man like you..
typical Posted September 25, 2006 Posted September 25, 2006 Honestly, I dont know why she would be more angry; Whether you did the backround search on her, or whether you know her true age. It was kinda sneaky, especially since you guys ended it, and then you went and ran that search on her and confronted her. She may still be hurt and offended, or it could simply be that she feels guilty about having sex with you, and so wants you to accept the blame for doing something a little sneaky, to even out the score, so she wont feel so dirty. but it sounds more like she wants to envolve you in some kind of sick twisted manipulative power play game, in which you guys play these sick love-hate back and forth games with each other (ie "I hate you so much I want to screw you right here, right now or I love you so much I hate you") It can be entertaining to say the very least, but it gets old after a little while, especially when one or the other runs out of things to hate you for. Then its just grasping at straws.
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