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I can't tell anybody i know so here i am. We were together 7 years!! He slept with other women through most of that time.I only found out when i got pregnant. yey. Looking back the signs were there I suppose but i loved him too much to believe. So we moved apart, I had our baby. We still see each other regularly as 'friends". Its so hard. I'm ANGRY that he gets to go live his life while i raise our child, I'm SAD that he didn't choose to be with me, I'm HURT that he cheated on me and made me feel so yuck. Within a month he was already seeing someone new. He's told me he's slept with someone while overseas and now shes coming to see him!! I Hate that we're friends, I hate that he does this in front of me. I hate that i pretend i don't care. Part of me wants him back so bad. I feel like i wasted so much time loving him. i wish he was sorry. how do you get over someone you keep seeing cause you share a child?? Thanks, i feel a bit better

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I can't tell anybody i know so here i am. We were together 7 years!! He slept with other women through most of that time.I only found out when i got pregnant. yey. Looking back the signs were there I suppose but i loved him too much to believe. So we moved apart, I had our baby. We still see each other regularly as 'friends". Its so hard. I'm ANGRY that he gets to go live his life while i raise our child, I'm SAD that he didn't choose to be with me, I'm HURT that he cheated on me and made me feel so yuck. Within a month he was already seeing someone new. He's told me he's slept with someone while overseas and now shes coming to see him!! I Hate that we're friends, I hate that he does this in front of me. I hate that i pretend i don't care. Part of me wants him back so bad. I feel like i wasted so much time loving him. i wish he was sorry. how do you get over someone you keep seeing cause you share a child?? Thanks, i feel a bit better

 

I am so sorry for what you are going through. Do you really want that kind of male role model around your child? I know that you need to do whats best for the child, but if having him around will hurt you, then you need to weigh your options.

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