Marielle Posted September 23, 2006 Posted September 23, 2006 Finally I broke it off today...it took one thing he did (not going out with me tonight because he was tired) whatever. I just feel very shocked that I finally took that decision, I know it's for the best, but also mad because of his behaviour and the cool he seemed with my decision (either by pride or because he thought I was mad, just an outburst) It just happened but I really don t feel good...I need you guys support please, my heart is gone, I m sooooooo sad and empty, I don t see a bright future. I see myself checking my cell every 2 seconds and anxious....What's next for me, torture?
GreenEyedLady Posted September 24, 2006 Posted September 24, 2006 It will probably be hard, as with any break up...just keep busy and be good to yourself...good luck...
Jane Doe Posted September 24, 2006 Posted September 24, 2006 The important thing is to keep your word on ending it. If you go back, you'll lose all credibility and he'll walk on you even more. Yes, this will be hard, as you're breaking an addiction but it can be done. Once you get past this crisis stage you'll be much stronger. You need to get out of the house and leave your cell phone at home. If you cave, things will be worse than before you broke it off.
BenThereDunThat Posted September 24, 2006 Posted September 24, 2006 Good for you! And JD is right - you have to stick with it. It will be hard, but it's true that it's an addiction. Like with other addictions, the more time since your last 'fix', the easier it gets. Just keep busy and be good to yourself!
Author Marielle Posted September 24, 2006 Author Posted September 24, 2006 Thanks guys for your replies, it's helping out a nowing someone understands me. All I do is chain smoking and bought some wine so it calmed me down. My thoughts are racing through my head...I don t even know if it's love or just an addiction. I took his crap for so long (2 yrs) that I m at a point where I hate him and feel so used. My situation is not THAT different: Crappy marriage, married for the baby, staying for the baby, but woith an added bonus: His very attached to his family (mother , bros and father) and doesnt want to dissapoint them, plus his muslim and very possesive, blames me for having a past (had 5 addmited boyfriends-but the truth is that I had a lot more,I m 35) and I feel mentally abused. SOrry to be mixing so many info and thoughts, but I m just saying some of what is going through my head. He says he loves me like never he loves any woman, he can't live wothout me...I m part of him...I m too beautiful for him, "where will I find another woman like you" yet he maange to still stay with his wife, after sooooo many promises Ohhhhhhhhhhh, I feel so helpless, will I be happy someday?
GreenEyedLady Posted September 24, 2006 Posted September 24, 2006 Yes!!!! You will be happy!!! Believe that!!! With or without him!!!
Author Marielle Posted September 24, 2006 Author Posted September 24, 2006 Just to clarify my last post...when I said crappy marriage, staying for the baby, I mean MM, not me , I m single, no kids...
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