catgirl1927 Posted September 22, 2006 Posted September 22, 2006 Alpha wants us to think he's mean, but he's really not. He's a good guy, he's going to be fine.
typical Posted September 22, 2006 Posted September 22, 2006 :love: Alpha you are dah man! Do you really mean this? I have to admit, a4a, I was both shocked and stunned as well.
alphamale Posted September 22, 2006 Posted September 22, 2006 :love: Alpha you are dah man! Do you really mean this? yes, i do. once a man gets married then he has to be totally committed to marriage. I suggest that men stay single but if they take the plunge then they should abide by its rules. I have to admit, a4a, I was both shocked and stunned as well. never be predictable
Pink Amulet Posted September 22, 2006 Posted September 22, 2006 I suggest that men stay single And he is back
catgirl1927 Posted September 22, 2006 Posted September 22, 2006 Hey, that's what I say too! If you don't want to be married and be faithful, why get married? I really don't understand it. It goes for women as well. What on earth is the point of getting married if you know you will not be happy with only one person?
whichwayisup Posted September 22, 2006 Posted September 22, 2006 once a man gets married then he has to be totally committed to marriage. I suggest that men stay single but if they take the plunge then they should abide by its rules. I agree with alpha. There are just some things you don't do when you're married. One makes some sacrifices - For the better - and you give certain things up once married. Dating others, and frequently visiting strip joints is a given. If there is a bachlor party or it's a once or twice a year thing, fine, but if it's a daily thing of seeing strippers then that's just not cool. WHY on earth would a married person (male or female) want to see someone else naked when you have a willing partner at home?
burning 4 revenge Posted September 22, 2006 Posted September 22, 2006 I agree with alpha. There are just some things you don't do when you're married. One makes some sacrifices - For the better - and you give certain things up once married. Dating others, and frequently visiting strip joints is a given. If there is a bachlor party or it's a once or twice a year thing, fine, but if it's a daily thing of seeing strippers then that's just not cool. WHY on earth would a married person (male or female) want to see someone else naked when you have a willing partner at home? Have you seen some these willing partners?
a4a Posted September 22, 2006 Posted September 22, 2006 yes, i do. once a man gets married then he has to be totally committed to marriage. I suggest that men stay single but if they take the plunge then they should abide by its rules. never be predictable See you make me want you!!! :bunny: I swear you would be a friggin hoot to hang with...... but not marriage material for sure!
rainfall Posted September 23, 2006 Posted September 23, 2006 My wife has a vibrator and while many men are insecure about them I understand her need to poke her twat sometimes. She also undeerstands my need to hang with the guys while looking at naked women and getting drunk. In no way is either cheating and secure partner knows that. Yeah except my vibrator is not is not a living breathing person. It is a battery powered machine. I don't feel any sexual desire for my vibrator. The next time I have sex with my bf I don't close my eyes and pretend he is my vibrator. A stripper is another person. I am pretty sure at least half the time when a man comes home from a strip club the next time he has sex with his SO he will pretend he is the stripper. So the are in no way even close to being the same. One is cheating and one is just a sex toy. For the record though if my bf had a problem with my vibrator I would throw it away in a second.
superconductor Posted September 23, 2006 Posted September 23, 2006 when a man comes home from a strip club the next time he has sex with his SO he will pretend he is the stripper. Well, now, THAT'S kinky!
rainfall Posted September 23, 2006 Posted September 23, 2006 Well, now, THAT'S kinky! :eek: Now that made me laugh. I meant to say he will pretend she is the stripper.
catgirl1927 Posted September 23, 2006 Posted September 23, 2006 The two things are in no way similar. This is just another attention getting thread by Woggle. He always posts outlandish, nonsensical things to get people to post. And he's very good at it! His threads are always very popular. It is true, though, that he will pretend she is the stripper. That's what is happening when guys go to clubs to get all excited and then come home to their poor wives. He's not having sex with his wife at all, it's not fidelity. I don't understand why men don't marry strippers. That seems to be what they want.
alphamale Posted September 23, 2006 Posted September 23, 2006 This is just another attention getting thread by Woggle. He always posts outlandish, nonsensical things to get people to post. And he's very good at it! His threads are always very popular. I agree....in addition many of his threads are becoming non-believable.
Citizen Erased Posted September 23, 2006 Posted September 23, 2006 The two things are in no way similar. This is just another attention getting thread by Woggle. He always posts outlandish, nonsensical things to get people to post. And he's very good at it! His threads are always very popular. Glad to see somebody else can see through his crappy posts
Jersey Shortie Posted September 23, 2006 Posted September 23, 2006 Strip clubs are not the same thing as a vib. That is pretty silly considering one thing is a real person, the other a silly object. You might like to *think* this because then you know your wife is only using a vib while you get to go out and interact with real women, and this still gives you the upper hand, but you would be mistaken.
Author Woggle Posted September 23, 2006 Author Posted September 23, 2006 To me strip clubs are not about seeing naked women. Also a man going alone is creepy but a man going with his friends is male bonding. To me it is about being with other men doing men stuff. Drinking beer and eating chicken wings is also a part.
Pink Amulet Posted September 23, 2006 Posted September 23, 2006 To me strip clubs are not about seeing naked women. Also a man going alone is creepy but a man going with his friends is male bonding. To me it is about being with other men doing men stuff. Drinking beer and eating chicken wings is also a part. Would doing eachother up the ass with vibrators after one too many beers and chicken wings be considered male bonding or would it be cheating?
Author Woggle Posted September 23, 2006 Author Posted September 23, 2006 Would doing eachother up the ass with vibrators after one too many beers and chicken wings be considered male bonding or would it be cheating? That would be cheating.
rainfall Posted September 23, 2006 Posted September 23, 2006 To me strip clubs are not about seeing naked women. Also a man going alone is creepy but a man going with his friends is male bonding. To me it is about being with other men doing men stuff. Drinking beer and eating chicken wings is also a part. Well if you are only going for beer and chicken wings why not just go to a sports bar? They got all that stuff except the chicks there wear clothes and you can't pay them to get naked for you.
Author Woggle Posted September 23, 2006 Author Posted September 23, 2006 Well if you are only going for beer and chicken wings why not just go to a sports bar? They got all that stuff except the chicks there wear clothes and you can't pay them to get naked for you. It's a man thing.
Pink Amulet Posted September 23, 2006 Posted September 23, 2006 I don't think so. You seem to be a poor excuse for a man.
Author Woggle Posted September 23, 2006 Author Posted September 23, 2006 I don't think so. You seem to be a poor excuse for a man. I am actually a very good example of a man. I don't have any kids out of wedlock I have a good career and I support myself I don't do drugs or smoke and I am a responsible drinker I don't abuse my wife or cheat on her I believe in sharing the chores
Toni_no12002 Posted September 23, 2006 Posted September 23, 2006 it seems to me you have a problem with your wife having a vibrator.Going to strip clubs is totally differnet. You cant compare the two at all.It seems to me your a little insecure that maybe your wife is using a vibrator and it makes you feel that your not good enough. Seems like your playing games.You cant have your own way so you do something worse to try and get at her and to make yourself feel better.
Author Woggle Posted September 23, 2006 Author Posted September 23, 2006 it seems to me you have a problem with your wife having a vibrator.Going to strip clubs is totally differnet. You cant compare the two at all.It seems to me your a little insecure that maybe your wife is using a vibrator and it makes you feel that your not good enough. Seems like your playing games.You cant have your own way so you do something worse to try and get at her and to make yourself feel better. I have no problem at all with it. She has said she will hire an expensive stripper for my 30th birthday so it is not a game at all.
DarkShadows Posted September 23, 2006 Posted September 23, 2006 Yes, of course, because anytime men do show feelings they're derided for being weak, spineless, having no cajones, etc. Happens all the time. Women don't do this.. Men do.. And nowadays it is ok to show feelings like it's ok to wear pink shirts and take twice as long to get ready in the morning as women. Metrosexuals are in so feelings are too...
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