RyTom21 Posted September 21, 2006 Posted September 21, 2006 I am a 22 year old male. I don't do very well in the dating world, and I starting to think it is because I am just not attractive. I want to get some opinions from women out there. On a scale from 1 to 10, where would I rank. i'm looking for 100% honesty. no feelings will be hurt. Also, it would help if you could suggest some ways I can improve my look, if you can think of any. click here for a picture of me: http://www.asms.zoomshare.com/album/Photos/images/16dfe74a6c9fc7253b546f637870038f_11588732040/:album?css=http://www.asms.zoomshare.com/lib/style/type_album.css
Author RyTom21 Posted September 21, 2006 Author Posted September 21, 2006 No, brown is my natural hair color
Adunaphel Posted September 21, 2006 Posted September 21, 2006 No, brown is my natural hair color I thought so - I think your natural hair color would suit you more.
Author RyTom21 Posted September 21, 2006 Author Posted September 21, 2006 thanks for your opinion. I appreciate it. but as of now, where would i rank on a scale from 1 to 10?
kjl933 Posted September 21, 2006 Posted September 21, 2006 Isn't there a website particularly for this?
Adunaphel Posted September 21, 2006 Posted September 21, 2006 thanks for your opinion. I appreciate it. but as of now, where would i rank on a scale from 1 to 10? Sorry, I am unable to rank guys basing solely on their looks. (and I'd date just about anyone who had a very interesting personality). Anyway I'd rate you average - not hot, but not bad looking!! If you could do something to improve the appearance of your skin it would also help, I think. (No offence meant)
nicki Posted September 21, 2006 Posted September 21, 2006 You have beautiful eyes. Consider going back to brown hair. Darker hair will make your eyes stand out even more. Personality and confidence make a guy appear good looking, too. Make sure you project a comfortable, confident vibe...even if you have to fake it until you feel it....and show women who you are, what you are passionate about...
Author RyTom21 Posted September 21, 2006 Author Posted September 21, 2006 wow, thats the most genuine responce i have recieved so far...thank you very much...I have been told on occasion that I have nice eyes.
Touche Posted September 21, 2006 Posted September 21, 2006 I agree. Go back to the brown hair and treat your skin. You're not bad now though. How tall are you?
HeyYouGuys Posted September 21, 2006 Posted September 21, 2006 Fantastic eyes! I agree, brown hair would do wonders for you. The blonde is not flattering. Nice full lips too. Take care of your skin with a healthy diet and good skin care regimen and I bet the babes start to take notice!!!! You look like the kind of guy who will 'blossom' in his late twenties to early thirties. You still kind of have that young-guy-growing-into-his-face appearance. You are average now, will probably be a hottie later in life.
Touche Posted September 21, 2006 Posted September 21, 2006 Wow. Well you should have absolutely no problem getting women. And your eyes are mesmerizing. I'd give you a 6 or so but you can be a 7 or 8.
Author RyTom21 Posted September 21, 2006 Author Posted September 21, 2006 mesmerizing...wow...I have never had anyone use that word to describe my eyes. I'm not used to getting compliments. you're making me blush. thank you.
Touche Posted September 21, 2006 Posted September 21, 2006 You're welcome and I was being honest. The problem must be in your confidence level I think. You should have NO problem meeting and dating nice gals.
pricillia Posted September 21, 2006 Posted September 21, 2006 Ry Tom, I agree with the other posters, Your natural hair color would be more flattering on you then your present color. The first thing that I notice is your eyes, they are very nice. Yes work on clearing up your skin, you will feel better about yourself... But most of all have confidence in yourself.
Sally00 Posted September 21, 2006 Posted September 21, 2006 GOSH! Everyone took my response about your eyes. Yeah, you have nice eyes. Just build some self-confidence.
Author RyTom21 Posted September 21, 2006 Author Posted September 21, 2006 that is one compliment that i seem to be getting consistently, and i never get tired of hearing it. haha. believe it or not, i dont get alot of compliments, so i really appreciate it.
pricillia Posted September 21, 2006 Posted September 21, 2006 GOSH! Everyone took my response about your eyes. Yeah, you have nice eyes. Just build some self-confidence. How can you not notice his eyes, they really stand out.
Sally00 Posted September 21, 2006 Posted September 21, 2006 How can you not notice his eyes, they really stand out. lol what made you think I didn't ... I just said I liked them.
Author RyTom21 Posted September 21, 2006 Author Posted September 21, 2006 seriously, stop. Youre making me blush. haha.
pricillia Posted September 21, 2006 Posted September 21, 2006 lol what made you think I didn't ... I just said I liked them. I know... LOL
RecordProducer Posted September 21, 2006 Posted September 21, 2006 Tom, I like you. I like your hair style and color, too. I suggest you keep dying it blond... just my 2 cents. What I don't like is that you seem too meek and not confident enough. Not doing well on the dating market also proves that I am right about your lack of confidence. You should be assertive. I don't know your personality, but it makes at least 50% of your initial attraction. Sense of humor is as important as looks. But self-confidence is even more important. I see that you have a little problem with acne and although it's not a big deal, you may wanna try some of the products that you can buy for it. Buy a bunch of lotions and creams and see what works best for you. They do help. It's also very important how you dress. It's good to stand out with some more extravagant style than jeans and a T-shirt.
nicki Posted September 22, 2006 Posted September 22, 2006 Hmmm, I see him as a jeans and t-shirt kind of guy. Maybe with a little one or two day stubble on his face. Sexy, romantic guy with a lot going on under the surface. Someone who smiles easily, right up to those gorgeous eyes. See, we are crushing on you, now, aren't we? Every woman always sees the potential in a guy.
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