RyTom21 Posted September 21, 2006 Posted September 21, 2006 Ladies..let me give you a scenario and tell me what you would do. Here's the scenario: You meet a guy and he decides that he wants to hold off on sex with you, because he wants the the first time to be special. You both like eachother and you get along great. He is one of the sweetest, nicest guys you've ever been with. So, a month into the relationship you both decide to sleep together for the first time. He turns out to be the worst sex you've ever had. What would you do: a. Dump Him if the sex doesn't improve b. Dump him on the spot c. Continue to have sex with him, and never tell him how bad he is in bed d. Tell him what he can do to improve his abilities in bed
Moose Posted September 21, 2006 Posted September 21, 2006 Because:You meet a guy and he decides that he wants to hold off on sex with you,there aren't any guys left on the Earth like this......
Art_Critic Posted September 21, 2006 Posted September 21, 2006 D has got to be the only answer to this.
superfreak Posted September 21, 2006 Posted September 21, 2006 My response is this... If I really like a guy, I mean, personality is great, he meets a great deal of my criteria for an ideal mate, everything clicks... But he's a bad lay... I would say my answer would be "d," or to give him tips on how to please me in the sack. I mean, if he's "untrainable," or just... Unwilling to learn, then that would signify something else. Besides, usually the first time is really awkward and unsatisfying (for me, at least)... Let's not forget that sometimes stress, performance anxiety, preoccupation, the temperature of the room, etc. can have an effect. It takes some time to get to know each others' bodies and likes/dislikes, in my experience, and it's the guy's personality that would either cause me to go back to learn more or cease and desist altogether. Good luck... That's the worst thing a guy can probably hear, that it's the worst sex EVER. I hope (if this is the girl) that you didn't TELL him that; it's gotta be hard for his ego (we all know how men are about that sort of thing). Hope all works out well!
Sally00 Posted September 21, 2006 Posted September 21, 2006 This is one of the reasons I don't have sex before marriage. It complicates things. People think sex is EVERYTHING, so they base the relationship on it. That is something I don't call a relationship.
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