I need answers

[Divine]

I learnt about heartbreak at an early age (16), and from that age i vowed that i would never play with someone else feelings. Eight years later i still havent done anything except love and respect my SO.

 

I realized that my ex has never had his heart broken and has no clue what this is like, hence it was very easy for him to walk out on our 3yrs relationship his reason(im just so confused, i dont think im the marrying type) after cheating on me of course.

 

so for all you guys and gals out there my question is, once you have experienced a broken heart, do you delibratley break another persons heart, knowing how F&^%$# up this feeling is.

 

or maybe i should date someone that has gone through the motions of heartbreak(will that even make a difference)

 

so confused

[Vanquish]

Speaking from a young age (im 19, my ex was 17) heartbreak on either end is only in the eye of the beholder. Prior my ex was broken up with 2 times by guys she deeply loved and took awhile to get over. She had her share of heartache and i had never experienced it on the level she put me through until she did. She said she would never hurt me in the way she was hurt in the past but this ended up being a blatant lie and she ended up breaking my heart like she said she wouldn't. So heartbreak is all about how you cope, some go out and meet someone else right off the bat or have had they're eye on someone while knowing the relationship wasn't going to last, or some of us like me fish around forever waiting for the special someone to come walking by one day. its all about how you view the big picture.

[Ariadne]

Hi,

 

my question is, once you have experienced a broken heart, do you delibratley break another persons heart, knowing how F&^%$# up this feeling is.

 

No, I don't deliberately break anybody's heart.

 

Heartbreaks are a part of life and happen by themselves,

 

Ariadne