blueman Posted September 21, 2006 Posted September 21, 2006 so i have been seeing this girl for like 1.5 yrs now. we are about 200 miles apart and see each ote consistently 2-3 weekends a month. well needless to say i got drunk the other night and made out with a girl that i work with and now i am just so dissapointed in myself. I love this girl im with and i understand that what i did was wrong and that i cant be truly in love with my gf if i cheated on her but all i keep thinking is that i want to be with her but i think when i drink my need for affection just overpowers me. please guys i understand if its bad and i encourage all of you to be brutally honest with me but im just so upset at myself for doing this. I am at a loss of what to do. I mean she is coming down this weekend and im taking her to an expensive dinner and giving her a bday present. GOD!!!!!!!!! IM SO ****ING TORN UP ive never felt so ****ty. well.......... please voice any input onb what to do now whether to come face to face with her or just break off abruptly or try and see if i can learn from my **** up and continue with her . thanks in advance for whatever comes next:sick: :sick: :sick:
Ripples Posted September 21, 2006 Posted September 21, 2006 I'm not sure my advice would be condoned here, but I'll give it anyway. Firstly, you need to decide whether or not you want to continue to have a relationship your girlfriend. If you really do want to continue and build on this relationship, and it seems that you do, I'd advise you to not tell her anything about your infidelity. But don't think you've got away with cheating. You need to make a resolution to yourself that you will never put yourself in that position again. Either don't drink, or make sure you're not in a position to make out with anyone else if you do.
Guest Posted September 21, 2006 Posted September 21, 2006 thanks for the response ripples. I in NO WAY believe i have gotten away with anything!!!!! i am so disgusted with myself and the fact that i drank too much around those who dont respect my situation. The girl i made out with knew of my gf and i and still made very strong moves at me. It is still my fault for not having the will to say no. I def. want to continue what i have with my LDR but i just have never cheated until the other night and now i feel so sick!!!!!!!
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