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K.. I've seen this girl that I liked and chatted to her few times in class later as I got to know her better I asked her out for coffee and a chat first we went with some friends when it was finnished she told me it was nice we should do it again.. She'll show me some other nice restuarant.

 

So when next week past I asked her "when are you going to take me for coffee?" she "why not after class?" so we went had a general conversations about some movies and sport etc what hobbies do you like and so on. When she had to go to other classes later she said again "It wasn't so bad after all talking with you" - (What does she mean by this?) we said bye and enjoy your weekends.

 

We have a holiday next week and I would like to ask her out again to go and do something interresting. Should I? and what would be the best way in asking her? to get a positive response?

 

just to note I am a little shy so it's very hard for me to convey new relationship.

 

thanks!

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This girl really likes you....a lot. I don't know either of you...and I'm 100% positive. Take it from me, I'm a woman. She's telling her friends all about you. I can guarantee she's saying "There's this guy from class, right, and he and I went for coffee and stuff and we connected...and then he asked when I was going to take him for coffee, so I said after class. That means he likes me....right? Well he went and I totally talked and we totally connected again. Do you think he likes me? Why hasn't he called? Do you think he'll ask me out again?"

 

That's the convo. You're playing it cool too, which is probably driving her nuts. It also doesn't matter how you ask her out, short of threatening her life. She likes you. You could sound like a retard and she'll still say yes. You could ask her to go with you to pick up trash at a park, and she'll say "That sounds like fun." Ask her to a museum of science...it's usually fun and playful there. Go rollerblading or biking. Doesn't really matter where you go, you guys will have fun.

 

So, definitely, yes, ask her out.

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"Hey _____ there's _______ (such and such movie, sports event, hobbie - the things you talked about that both of you enjoy) on ______ (Sat. ) that I want to check out, you should come with me ?"

 

Just as simple as that !

Doing it like this; shows that you were actually LISTENING to her/your conversations, it's a natural way to use the information she gave you about her interests to further your connection, it suggests that you're an interesting guy with an interesting life and that you're wanting her to be a part of it.

 

Definitely ask her out again !

Have no-doubts ! - she'll be more than happy that you did !

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Liebenberg,

 

From what you have written in your post, I do believe she is interested. Do ask her out on another date.

 

Take her out to a nice restaurant. Just the two of you, with a pleasant course meal and dessert. Don't go to the movies, just yet [iMO].

 

Good luck!

Sand&Water

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