texastapper Posted September 20, 2006 Posted September 20, 2006 I just met this girl about 2 weeks ago, and her and I talked every day the first week about 10 times a day on the phone. Then this past weekend I invited her to come up and hang out at my lake house, where a couple buddies and myself were going to be. Well she came up on Saturday with one of her friends and her and I hit it off like no other.. We had the best time ever... We joked around, teased one another, kissed and hugged.. It was all around just fun.. So she has to leave early from the lake house to go to a wedding that evening, so I knew i wouldnt hear from her too much. Then on sunday I still dont hear anything from her so I give her a call and leave her a couple of messages. I finally get a text message from her at like 1:45 in the morning saying she is fine, just had a busy weekend etc, she tells me that she will call me tomorrow on her way to Austin, where she has a job interview. So the day goes on and I hear nothing from her.. I knew she was going to be in the car for a while, so I decided to call her.. She finally answers and is kind of dry on the phone. I kind of got the mixed signals from her.. We talked for a short bit and then she let me go.. About 2 hours later I had a question I had to ask her so I called her back.. She was in a better mood and we talked for about 15 minutes.. I asked her if she would call me later and she was like definitely... I never heard from her at all. I sent her a text message wishing her luck in her interview, and never got any response... Am I being over kill with her or something. I mean, all I am trying to do is get to know this person, which usually involves talking to them. But my friends tell me its just a game and that she must like me if she drove all the way out to see me. What should I do, just lay off and not call her? I've gone all day today without calling her, and its been hard.. I'm in that stage where you just want to be gitty with the person and learn everything imaginable about them, but at the same time I dont want to scare her off.. Help me here, Is this just a game or am I just totally being nieve and getting blown off??? Thanks, Justin
whichwayisup Posted September 20, 2006 Posted September 20, 2006 Let her call you...All the calls, 10 times a day for like 2 weeks (I'm sure she called you too so it wasn't just you calling her) probably caught up to her and has freaked her out. Even if she likes you alot, it still may have freaked her. So, back off abit, don't call everyday. You miss her, that's a good thing, but honestly, moving really fast and spending basically 24/7 "into" her is too much. Enjoy YOUR time when she's not around or is busy. Don't make her your only focus! It seems she's still doing her thing, which is quite healthy. So, do that for yourself as well.
Author texastapper Posted September 20, 2006 Author Posted September 20, 2006 Yeah I just think I needed a wake up call. This is the first time in a long time I had that puppy love feeling, and its one of those things I truly missed. But the reality of it is that I can see that it was moving too fast, and I just need to relax and go back to doing my own thing.. Obviously easier said than done, but I can do it.. Thanks so much for waking me up..
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