DeeBrod83 Posted September 19, 2006 Posted September 19, 2006 I'm seeing this guy and things are totally different in this relationship than any of my previous ones. It's funny b/c people want to call it love at first sight but I think that's a bunch of horse manure. But when we first saw each other we both felt like we'd been hit in the head. But the best part is it just got better as we got to know one another. Everything seems to match up and it just feels right. So I want to know from those of you who feel you're with your "happily ever after" how do you know???
Lisa32 Posted September 19, 2006 Posted September 19, 2006 You'd know if you didn't have to ask the question.
Sally00 Posted September 19, 2006 Posted September 19, 2006 Well... my bf and I had been friends for over a year. He's liked me for that long too. I didn't like him like that, but I did enjoy his company. One day, he asked to hang out with me. We watched a movie at my house. I had on capris that day and he touched my leg. RIGHT THEN AND THERE... I knew I loved him back. It was the craziest, weirdest thing that has ever happened to me. It's like God turned on the switch telling me to love him. And I did. And I do. It's been 8 months now. We talk as if we're already officially engaged.
lovelorcet Posted September 19, 2006 Posted September 19, 2006 I hope God leaves my switches alone... Or maybe him touching your leg caused you to pump out tons of Oxytocin... Would be the more logical explaination...
Author DeeBrod83 Posted September 19, 2006 Author Posted September 19, 2006 You'd know if you didn't have to ask the question. Ask what question?
Sally00 Posted September 19, 2006 Posted September 19, 2006 I hope God leaves my switches alone... Or maybe him touching your leg caused you to pump out tons of Oxytocin... Would be the more logical explaination... lol bitter?
Lisa32 Posted September 19, 2006 Posted September 19, 2006 Bitter? Not at all. In fact, I'm really liking this guy I've been seeing. I'm extremely happy. The question you had in your posted was... "happily ever after" how do you know??? My answer: You'd know if you didn't have to ask the question...that's how people know. If you have to ask, there are doubts. Anyway, that's just my opinion...or my experience should I say. Good luck with everything.
Lisa32 Posted September 19, 2006 Posted September 19, 2006 Lovelorcet...I just read your post...LOL...too funny.
Author DeeBrod83 Posted September 19, 2006 Author Posted September 19, 2006 Bitter? Not at all. In fact, I'm really liking this guy I've been seeing. I'm extremely happy. The question you had in your posted was... "happily ever after" how do you know??? My answer: You'd know if you didn't have to ask the question...that's how people know. If you have to ask, there are doubts. Anyway, that's just my opinion...or my experience should I say. Good luck with everything. Ah. I guess I ask moreso b/c I've thought I was before and I know in a lot of ways I was kidding myself. So now I'm kind of the other way and I'm alway skeptical. But this guy is just crumbling all my pre-concieved notions and definitely making me think twice that maybe it is possible to have that feeling for real.
lovelorcet Posted September 19, 2006 Posted September 19, 2006 Hey Dee... I kind of feel a bit the same about the girl I am seeing now. I keep trying to find reasons why it wouldn't work but I can't really find any dealbreakers... She is really great and it does "feel" right but I guess only time will tell. You can only really go with what you think is right at the moment as you never know how things may change.
Sand&Water Posted September 19, 2006 Posted September 19, 2006 DeeBrod83, But this guy is just crumbling all my pre-concieved notions and definitely making me think twice that maybe it is possible to have that feeling for real. Natural. It is supposed to happen, at least in my opinion. The most rewarding, and trustworthy relationships are the most complex ones. The struggling observed, is what makes the relationship more worthwhile. If you simply, lay there without having your brain gears grind and shift from one side to the other, then how does one establish trust, care, passion, love. There should be a type of evolution. I think I'm being reduntant. In anycase, the way to confirm your love feelings is if his actions follow through with his words, and you notice a bright change in the settlement of the relationship. Something to think about. Sand&Water
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