turtle32 Posted September 19, 2006 Posted September 19, 2006 I have been reading these post and was wondering why No Contact is so important and how it works to help get someone back, my girlfriend broke up with me or siad she needed time for herself something like that not that she didnt like me but we didnt ahve time for each other and i havent contacted her am dieing to and am afrid i will hope im strong enough but one reason is she has never really told me how she feels and hwta was the reason . Also how long do you do the no contact? what if she is trying to se if i do care about her caused i didnt show her alot of attention in the end of the relationship? Im afraid i will lose her for good. and what is the typical time frame an ex will contact someone if she does miss you or want back?
superconductor Posted September 19, 2006 Posted September 19, 2006 No Contact is not some sort of manipulative game to use to get someone back. It's a process by which both you and your ex can move on with your respective lives. If you want to get in touch with her, by all means go ahead. But don't expect that it will change anything, other than the fact that you'll be right back feeling all those lousy things you felt when you first broke up with her.
Cheshire Cat Posted September 19, 2006 Posted September 19, 2006 The main goal of no contact is healing from the break-up, not getting your partner back. Also how long do you do the no contact? Until you longer need it, i.e. until you are over the break-up.
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