eng.teach Posted October 3, 2006 Posted October 3, 2006 Have to disagree with "they always go back" thing. I'm sure there are thousands of couples whose relationship started in the affair category. I'm not saying that it's right, but it's probably true. Do people really believe all the stats they read? Who in their right mind would stand up and shout, "Me! Me! We started out in an affair, and look at us now!" Um, hardly anyone. Especially not if they have kids.
pricillia Posted October 3, 2006 Posted October 3, 2006 I mean is it possible here that you actually married the wrong person?
KnowHowLoveFeels Posted October 3, 2006 Posted October 3, 2006 I mean is it possible here that you actually married the wrong person? Of course, it's possible! Why do you think the divorce rate is above 50% now???
pricillia Posted October 3, 2006 Posted October 3, 2006 Of course, it's possible! Why do you think the divorce rate is above 50% now??? I know that it is possible, just trying to make a point...without shoving it in People marry for different reasons Love Money Status Arranged Marriage They just settle... I am sure that there are more reasons just can not think of any. Then they realize that they want out but it gets too complicated, so they cheat, or fight, or decide to make eachother miserable.
LittleLady Posted October 4, 2006 Posted October 4, 2006 Of course most go back to the wives. But it is not because you are some prize, it is because it is more convenient and simple for THEM. The only REAL person a CHEATING man thinks about is HIMSELF. Selfish to the core. If this is the type of person you can stand living the rest of your life with, then that's on you.
LittleLady Posted October 4, 2006 Posted October 4, 2006 A huge burden is lifted off his shoulders AND he knows that his wife is accepting that flaw by taking him back. He'll think, "I already slept with women before during our marriage, so what's the difference?" "And there is a good chance she will take me back again IF she happens to find out the next time". Really... he's just going to do it again when he feels your guard is down. Only, next time you might not be so lucky to find out!
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