Morgs Posted November 28, 2006 Posted November 28, 2006 I know my situation was a bit different from yours but when I was 16 I became involved with a guy who I thought was wonderful. He managed to isolate me from all my friends and family - then started to hit me. Everyday, no matter what I did, I would be punched or kicked, or he would just scream abuse at me i.e calling me useless, ugly, lucky he stayed with me etc. - this went on for 2 years. I tried to leave once - he sliced my throat. Not deep enough to cause much damage, but I was still terrified. He found out I was pregnant, and kicked me in the stomach until I miscarried. The only way I got out was that he found someone else to toy with and kicked me out. I'm saying - do not go back, it is not your fault!! These men have absolutely no idea they are doing anything wrong, he will think he is perfectly justified in what he is doing!! For your own safety, and ESPECIALLY the safety of your children - GET OUT FAST AND STAY AWAY FROM HIM!! Things won't get better - he won't change, and he might end up turning on your kids!!
chillinagain Posted December 2, 2006 Posted December 2, 2006 hey Im back Just to say im with the loser i tried to leave last week got my bags packed headed for the hills left him a note. enjoyed my time back in my country, he showed up and managed to entice me back with all my bags. So yes im here in his country again now. Im not happy im treated like a slave. He has changed behaviour for the worse and is now dissapearing at night in the eve working during the day and then going out. Its happend about 7 nights out of last week and a half and im sick of it. Final straw was the eposide with the underwear all wet, and trousers hung up in the corridor after a friday eve. This has made me decide this guy is a PRAT he wont change. Already i have contacted my friends in my country to meet in december. Im going back to stay with family in my country for 2 wks and if im feeling upto it may stay longer. Sod the clothes. Hes got me right where he wants me im without a car, no independence I dont speak the language too good, I have no money. There is nothing good for me here. I must look at what i need now for as long as i have him interefering in my life I will never benefit. Its taken a long time for me to see it a yr and half but im beginning to see the light. His ex has recentely contacted him. He keeps telling me im a faliure in my life I will amount to nothing blah blah usual sh*t. To be honest he can do go where he wants im exhusted now. I JUST DONT CARE ANYMORE. I want to enjoy my life again. Ok bye for now. Chillin
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