chrisy484 Posted September 18, 2006 Posted September 18, 2006 my bf has a hard time showing affection - walking through the mall he wont grab my hand or anything or give me hugs. i grabbed his hand the other day and ased him "you dont like holding hands that much do you?" and he responded with "a certain someone never liked doing things like this so it kind of just stuck with me". the certain someone is his ex. and also we havent been inimate in 3 weeks now and he says its because he doesnt want anymore kids (bc he has a 5 month old baby) i mean im so lost and confused - i feel like he doesnt want me but deep down i know thats not true cuz he never shows me any reason to believe he doesnt like me anymore, hes just going through a tough time and hes so stuck in the past and i cant seem to break through this wall hes built around himself - he wont let me in anymore. how can i try to break that wall?? is it possible??
IceIceBaby Posted September 18, 2006 Posted September 18, 2006 In a word...no. Sorry to be so blunt, but unfortunately it's true. I had an ex who was the exact same way. Completely unaffectionate. I was with him for a year and saw no signs of improvement despite the fact that we discussed it and he agreed to try. I truely felt he liked me and wanted to be with me, but when it came down to it the affection was very important to me. So I guess you have to decide how important that is to you. I know alot of times we think a person will change for us, but people rarely do change.
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