Rooster_DAR Posted September 20, 2006 Posted September 20, 2006 In my experience, if a woman is physically attracted to you and you are meeting her sexual needs, she will be happy with whatever you give her. If not, you will do nothing right. That is far from the truth.
Author Woggle Posted September 20, 2006 Author Posted September 20, 2006 No, it's vice versa - some give their wives the opposite of what they want. You, Woggle, sound like you would do anything to make a woman UNHAPPY. I don't know if roses bloom in your marriage, but you are so f-ing negative. Look at all the threads here. They all start with "My wife...", "My husband," "My boyfriend," "My girlfriend," "My ex..." etc. All your threads start with "Women"!!! It's always women that suck and men who are too good to be true. Once your wife shows you her normal, human side, you will throw her into this category, too. She will be another woman, because she will express a demand that you disagree with or get angry at you or have PMS. Not one person who has talked about "men" or "women" in general has been completely serious about the subject. We may agree that men and women have different language or needs or feelings... but to categorize all women as the devil itself... do you really think that you're right about this, Woggle? That you see something that nobody else sees? You stated that your friends share your opinion. Well, you know what, if a woman who was terribly disappointed in men talked about how bad men are, I would tell her casually and jokingly: "Yeah, I agree, you can't live with them and you can't kill them all." I certainly would not persuade her that there ARE nice men out there if I doubt her ability to dig one out of the dust. I don't understand why you can't realize that we're all the same specimen. All cats are cats, all squirrels are squirrels, all people are people - male or female, good or bad. We do have differences, but to state that men are good and women are bad is plain incorrect! I don't like to make women unhappy but I just refuse to be a doormat for them. I don't bite my tongue to make women feel better and I truly don't care if a woman thinks I am sexist. I have been through hell and back and survived so do you think I care what some feminist thinks about me. So many men go around walking on eggshells to avoid offending women and even when women do them wrong they still blame themselves. Look how many men on this board blame themselves for their wives cheating. They twist and turn themselves in orde to meet a women's ever changing demands and they still don't get anywhere. I am myself and any woman that doesn't like my views can kiss my ass. This mentality got me everything in my divorce and I have a great wife who is nothing like the women the men on here are married to. I don't hate all women and I ackowledge that there are many good women out there but in the battle of the sexes all is fair. Women take shots all the time at the male gender so I figure a little turnabout is fair play. It is an undeniable fact that my words describe many women and society condones and encourages it. How many women on here get sympathy for things they caused. They cheat and people feel sorry for them. I just read a thread where a guy's wife's friends are encouraging them to take him for all he is worth and all he did was be a good husband and provider. The type of feminist women I talk about can dish but they can't take it. They can spout all the manhating stuff they want but as soon as a man retaliates he is a misogynist. Why should I show these type of women an ounce of repsect when they have none for me. A woman has to earn my respect. Having a vagina is not a get respect free card. One thing I do know is that I am 100 times more free than these spineless doormats that feminists seem to think men should be. I am the man that most men wish they had the balls to be.
lindya Posted September 20, 2006 Posted September 20, 2006 It is an undeniable fact that my words describe many women and society condones and encourages it. How many women on here get sympathy for things they caused. They cheat and people feel sorry for them. I just read a thread where a guy's wife's friends are encouraging them to take him for all he is worth and all he did was be a good husband and provider. The type of feminist women I talk about can dish but they can't take it. They can spout all the manhating stuff they want but as soon as a man retaliates he is a misogynist. People view you as a misogynist because you're absolutely obsessed by the concept of women being free-loading, untrustworthy bitches. Adding in your "I realise there are some good women" disclaimers doesn't detract from the fact that you post about this constantly. You've more or less admitted to us all that you prowl through the divorce forum in search of examples of female trickery and unpleasantness to get yourself wound up about. Having a vagina is not a get respect free card. Neither is it a "get disrespected and be perceived as a likely manhood-burglar" card. One thing I do know is that I am 100 times more free than these spineless doormats that feminists seem to think men should be. I am the man that most men wish they had the balls to be. No you're not. Even your marriage to an allegedly rare example of good womanhood doesn't seem to have freed you from this thoroughly miserable, bitter mindset you're perpetually trapped in. Despite purporting to be someone's happy husband, you continue to trawl the web for examples of pitiable, miserable men. Here's a time management trip. Stop searching the web for these men, and just take a look in the bathroom mirror. That's the only person you need to worry about helping and fixing.
blind_otter Posted September 20, 2006 Posted September 20, 2006 One thing I do know is that I am 100 times more free than these spineless doormats that feminists seem to think men should be. I am the man that most men wish they had the balls to be. Is this fallacy why you refuse to seek help for the emotionally crippling issues with women that you have? You believe this is true? But you don't sound free, to me. You sound trapped. Trapped by your own illogical thought patterns elicited by memories. Trapped by the past.
a4a Posted September 20, 2006 Posted September 20, 2006 Is this fallacy why you refuse to seek help for the emotionally crippling issues with women that you have? You believe this is true? But you don't sound free, to me. You sound trapped. Trapped by your own illogical thought patterns elicited by memories. Trapped by the past. and continues to feel the need to validate your marriage to this A-typical woman. She is still a woman....... beware!
RecordProducer Posted September 20, 2006 Posted September 20, 2006 I have been through hell and back and survived so do you think I care what some feminist thinks about me. This is one thing that I can't explain to my hsuband - that I don't give a sh*t about what people think of me and if they don't like me, they can kiss my ass. He says it's a stupid thing to say. He is stupid for saying it's stupid! They can spout all the manhating stuff they want but as soon as a man retaliates he is a misogynist. They talk about their own men, you talk about WOMEN in general!
dgiirl Posted September 20, 2006 Posted September 20, 2006 I don't like to make women unhappy but I just refuse to be a doormat for them. I thought you were happily married? How are you still being a doormat to women? If you were truely this empowered man, you'd have the confidence enough to know who you are and not need to constantly state your opinion on the opposite sex every chance you get. I don't hate all women and I ackowledge that there are many good women out there but in the battle of the sexes all is fair. Women take shots all the time at the male gender so I figure a little turnabout is fair play. The difference is, you deliberatly create scenarios for you to take shots at the female gender. And if there was any woman on here constantly bashing the male gender every chance she got, she'd get the same response. It is an undeniable fact that my words describe many women and society condones and encourages it. How many women on here get sympathy for things they caused. They cheat and people feel sorry for them. Unfortunately you are too blind to realize that people are ****ty to people. Gender has absolutely nothing to do with it. You act as if men are little saints that never do any wrong. You troll the divorce forums and add fuel to the flames for men to stand up and bash women saying how greedy we are, but you completely ignore the women who have had the same crap done to them and are in just as much pain. For you, anything that goes against your opinion is a "rare" exception. Your wife is a rare exception. My divorce is a rare exception. Men cheating on women is a rare exception. Yadda yadda yadda. You intentionally seek any story that validates this skewed vision of the female gender and it surprises me to know you are "happily" married. If you are so happily married, why dont you focus on your marriage instead of "helping" these poor souls. You are still full of bitterness. Your story can be summed up as "My exw screwed me over and instead of rising to the occassion, and having a better life, i let her beat me, and I've become bitter and mistrusting towards women." Great role model. Why should I show these type of women an ounce of repsect when they have none for me. If you have an issue with a "type" of women, then direct it at that type, not the whole gender. Unfortunately, you just love the attention of being a troll.
Mz. Pixie Posted September 20, 2006 Posted September 20, 2006 Is this fallacy why you refuse to seek help for the emotionally crippling issues with women that you have? You believe this is true? But you don't sound free, to me. You sound trapped. Trapped by your own illogical thought patterns elicited by memories. Trapped by the past. Word...........I completely agree!
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