azn69dude Posted September 17, 2006 Posted September 17, 2006 i have a question, im 17 yrs old and i have a girlfriend, i been at her house lately and been cuddleing and makin out alot... were not gona have sex or do any other stuff but i wanna try to turn her on alot, like wat is a good spot to massage or kiss or anything, please help
Pink Amulet Posted September 17, 2006 Posted September 17, 2006 Lick her vagina. That usually does it for me
Author azn69dude Posted September 17, 2006 Author Posted September 17, 2006 is there anythin else i can do then that lol
superconductor Posted September 17, 2006 Posted September 17, 2006 Gentle nibbles and warm wet kisses on almost any part of a woman's body are good. I particularly like that warm pulsating spot just underneath the ear. But don't give her hickies.
stoopid_guy Posted September 17, 2006 Posted September 17, 2006 Gentle nibbles and warm wet kisses on almost any part of a woman's body are good. I particularly like that warm pulsating spot just underneath the ear. But don't give her hickies. Also the ear itself. The back of her neck (the softer the better there.) If her legs are bare, very soft carresses on her inner thighs. Every woman's a little different too. Explore and experiment.
Pink Amulet Posted September 17, 2006 Posted September 17, 2006 Every woman's a little different too. Yes, many women like to be gently kissed on their neck while others prefer a finger up their ass to get things warmed up
johan Posted September 17, 2006 Posted September 17, 2006 azn, I wouldn't suggest trying Pink's finger trick for a while. That's somewhat advanced. Start with the neck.
stoopid_guy Posted September 17, 2006 Posted September 17, 2006 Yes, many women like to be gently kissed on their neck while others prefer a finger up their ass to get things warmed up Just don't make eye contact?
Teacher's Pet Posted September 17, 2006 Posted September 17, 2006 Yes, many women like to be gently kissed on their neck while others prefer a finger up their ass to get things warmed up *perk* Can I buy you a drink? *blows on finger to warm it up* -tp
Teacher's Pet Posted September 17, 2006 Posted September 17, 2006 Lick her vagina. That usually does it for me "Bartender? Just leave the bottle..." -tp
Teacher's Pet Posted September 17, 2006 Posted September 17, 2006 Soft, gentle kisses while your fingertips gently caress the back of her neck always seem to work for me..... While doing that, your free hand rubs her knee, and slowly up her thigh. Of course, if she's wearing shorts or a skirt, it's especially effective. Use eye contact and body language to determine how far up the leg she'll let you go. If you are doing things right, and she's wearing the appropriate skirt and underwear (or none!), slowly work your way to her vagina, but don't be tempted to just "jam your hand in there".... Treat the vagina the same way you did with the knee. Gentle massages on the outside of it, while still kissing and working the back of the neck will drive her wild. ALWAYS use eye contact and body language to determine if she's "receptive" to this... if she is, then you can GENTLY attempt to use your fingertips to stimulate the clit. Again, gauge her response. Then, and only then, attempt to gently insert a finger into the vagina, just up to the finger tip, and begin to massage from inside. One advanced technique I use it to work your tongue GENTLY inside her mouth in rhythm with your finger. The balance between your "upper body stimulation" and "lower body stimulation" should drive her up the wall within a couple of minutes. If you are sitting on a couch or the bed, GENTLY (note the key word to ALL of this is GENTLY) lay her back and help her get comfortable. Once she's comfortable, you can work the "lower half" a LITTLE harder..... Within 3-5 minutes, you should BOTH be naked. Hope this helps. -tp
Teacher's Pet Posted September 17, 2006 Posted September 17, 2006 Kiss her from head to toe. I LOVE IT. That too. Now I just need a willing partner to re-test all my theories on. -tp
JackEverett25 Posted September 17, 2006 Posted September 17, 2006 I found the best thing to do with women is to build the anticipation as much as possible (i.e. don't immediately grab all of her naughty spots. As others are saying, work your way to them). If you're making out, you can gently massage her neck with your fingertips and work your way down her back. The key here is to test the waters as you progress...brush up against her breasts with your hands or body and see her reaction before going for them later. Lift up the back of her shirt and massage her lower back before working your way up (and eventually off with the shirt). If you're going down under, make sure you spend a good amount of time in the area around her vagina, especially the inner thighs and the outer areas of it. Once again, the key here is anticipation, so make sure you play around a bit until she can't take it anymore. Also, one of my favorite things to do during foreplay is to neck a woman very gently. You can become quite creative with this, but it's great bc they can't quite see what you're doing (which really turns them on), but you can feel their response, hear their breathing, smell their perfume, etc. Don't go in for the kill like a hoover vacuum cleaner (or else it will get old real quick), but instead, nibble a bit here, brush your nose a bit there, flick your tongue a little more there (especially below the ear and the earlobe) and kiss ever so gently. Do this for a while, until you both can't take it any longer. However, if you're in the mood to screw the hell out of her, anticipation be damned! Rip off her clothes and have at it.
Mirnsy Posted September 18, 2006 Posted September 18, 2006 I personally like when a guy gives me compliments like how pretty I am and how good I smell. That usually warms me up a little bit. I like soft neck kisses. See how she responds to that. If you're turning her on, she will be waiting for you to kiss her.
lovestruck234 Posted September 18, 2006 Posted September 18, 2006 Weeeelll...I like it when he.... - takes it really slow. As in, touches me really softly and like he means it. Rubs my lower back (If we're standing up) and his hands slowly works their way down to my a$$. If we're laying down, I love it when he touches me EVERYWHERE, except "down there"...if he rubs my breasts really softly, that's bound to get me going. - Then when he starts kissing me. On the neck, I loose it big time when he goes for the neck. Really soft, fairly wet kisses just above my collar bone and near the back of my neck. Then on my ear....oh my GOD, this is usually where I loose it. When he nibbles really softly on my ear lobe and licks up my ear.... - Then his hands start wandering. He puts his hand under my shirt and rubs my stomach, up toward my breasts, then down right near my crotch, but not on it yet.... he lowers himself down, puts his hands behind me and lifts me up (This is all laying down, mind you). he slowly pulls up my top and takes it off. He pulls down my bra and lowers himself to one of my breasts. He starts to lick and kiss my nipples.... - Then he takes my bra off and throws it on the floor. He lowers himself down to my pants and starts to unbutton my pants... as he is pulling them off I can feel his warm breath on me. That usually makes my clit start pulsing! - The pants are off and I am now only in my underwear. He is breathing on my underwear and I can feel it.....it feels so warm. He slowly removes my underwear. At this stage he realises that I am soaking wet.... He usually takes that as a hint.... Now I'll let your imagination run wild.... good luck with it all!!
Pyro Posted September 18, 2006 Posted September 18, 2006 Weeeelll...I like it when he.... - takes it really slow. As in, touches me really softly and like he means it. Rubs my lower back (If we're standing up) and his hands slowly works their way down to my a$$. If we're laying down, I love it when he touches me EVERYWHERE, except "down there"...if he rubs my breasts really softly, that's bound to get me going. - Then when he starts kissing me. On the neck, I loose it big time when he goes for the neck. Really soft, fairly wet kisses just above my collar bone and near the back of my neck. Then on my ear....oh my GOD, this is usually where I loose it. When he nibbles really softly on my ear lobe and licks up my ear.... - Then his hands start wandering. He puts his hand under my shirt and rubs my stomach, up toward my breasts, then down right near my crotch, but not on it yet.... he lowers himself down, puts his hands behind me and lifts me up (This is all laying down, mind you). he slowly pulls up my top and takes it off. He pulls down my bra and lowers himself to one of my breasts. He starts to lick and kiss my nipples.... - Then he takes my bra off and throws it on the floor. He lowers himself down to my pants and starts to unbutton my pants... as he is pulling them off I can feel his warm breath on me. That usually makes my clit start pulsing! - The pants are off and I am now only in my underwear. He is breathing on my underwear and I can feel it.....it feels so warm. He slowly removes my underwear. At this stage he realises that I am soaking wet.... He usually takes that as a hint.... Now I'll let your imagination run wild.... good luck with it all!! Damn.........that's hot.
Pink Amulet Posted September 18, 2006 Posted September 18, 2006 That reads like a risque chapter from a Harlequin romance novel lovestruck
Teacher's Pet Posted September 18, 2006 Posted September 18, 2006 Now I'll let your imagination run wild.... good luck with it all!! I don't know about my imagination, but that post is sure making my hands wanna run wild! -tp
mental_traveller Posted September 18, 2006 Posted September 18, 2006 Most women quite enjoy if you go down on them. Run your fingers/fingernails lightly up and down her back, or from her ankles up to her inner thighs. Make her think you are going to go further, then hold back at the last minute. Kiss her ears, neck, other sensitive parts of the body. Lots of eye contact is good, some compliments, tell her your feelings too (assuming they are good!). A bit of gentle biting/nibbling can be hot as well. Some women have very sensitive breasts, others less so. Encourage her to tell you what she enjoys and what she is indifferent to, it will take a while to figure out her personal preferences. And after all that, slide your rubber on and give her a damn good seeing to! P.S. once you've moved from foreplay to actual sex, when you feel you're close to coming, stop and just pause for a bit, let things subside a little, then start up slowly again, maybe switch positions or whatever. Instead of finishing fairly quickly you can last for much longer, which tends to make things a lot more fun for both of you.
lovestruck234 Posted September 18, 2006 Posted September 18, 2006 That reads like a risque chapter from a Harlequin romance novel lovestruck What is Harlequin?
lovestruck234 Posted September 19, 2006 Posted September 19, 2006 Damn.........that's hot. *sigh*....I tend to have that sort of effect on people.... ...lol only jokin!
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