shortnsassy Posted September 17, 2006 Posted September 17, 2006 been haveing in affair. yes i'am married so is he. i been with him for 10 years now. i try to break it off but i go back to him. his wife found about us but he lied his way outof it. she thinks he has only been with me 3xs. not 10years. but this is how hour affair started 10 yearsago. I was out in my yard cutting grass. he finally got the nerve to drive down into my yard. He said he has admired me for 2 years. so thats how the affair started. But i didnt think it was going to last 1 week instead of 10 years. but as time went by i grow to love this man. he saids he loves me but them are just words. the man i'am seeing his age is 53 now. he has not seen me much here in a little bit, he is a coalminer that his job. but any way the last E-mail i got from him he said he was in old man is very tired dont have the engery anymore like he did. saids he would like to see me everyday but he cant. saids if i wanted to go seperated ways he understood but he is doing the best he can. I dont no when to believe him. he said he love me but he doesnt show it. my husband doesnt no about us. i cant tell him. but any way i'am haveing a hard time dealing with this. How can you let go of a 10 year affair? could any one can give me advise? Have i been used all this time so much in love i didnt see it? ..
KnowHowLoveFeels Posted September 17, 2006 Posted September 17, 2006 How can you let go of a 10 year affair? could any one can give me advise? Have i been used all this time so much in love i didnt see it? People change. People can fall out of love. He did love you 10 years ago, and he probably still does - but in a different way. He did not use you. No one can use you without your permission. You did love him, too. Let it go. Young people break up all the time. I know it is not easy for you to just forget about him, but you have to. Think of it this way: it was a longer ride than you have anticipated, and it was a good ride. Why not let it end on a good note?
Sup Posted September 17, 2006 Posted September 17, 2006 been haveing in affair. yes i'am married so is he. i been with him for 10 years now. i try to break it off but i go back to him. his wife found about us but he lied his way outof it. she thinks he has only been with me 3xs. not 10years. but this is how hour affair started 10 yearsago. I was out in my yard cutting grass. he finally got the nerve to drive down into my yard. He said he has admired me for 2 years. so thats how the affair started. But i didnt think it was going to last 1 week instead of 10 years. but as time went by i grow to love this man. he saids he loves me but them are just words. the man i'am seeing his age is 53 now. he has not seen me much here in a little bit, he is a coalminer that his job. but any way the last E-mail i got from him he said he was in old man is very tired dont have the engery anymore like he did. saids he would like to see me everyday but he cant. saids if i wanted to go seperated ways he understood but he is doing the best he can. I dont no when to believe him. he said he love me but he doesnt show it. my husband doesnt no about us. i cant tell him. but any way i'am haveing a hard time dealing with this. How can you let go of a 10 year affair? could any one can give me advise? Have i been used all this time so much in love i didnt see it? .. Are you EVER gonna tell your husband? Let your husband make a decision about his life, and stop making decisions for him, If he wants to leave let him leave, don't force him to stay in a bad marriage. He just doesn't know it yet.
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