Guest Posted September 16, 2006 Posted September 16, 2006 Met someone online in Feb b/c I was relocating to his city for a new job. Hit if off but b/c of the stress (and being a single mom) I treated him pretty crappy - but he stuck around. First date was first week of May, told him in July I just wanted to be friends b/c he was sooo smothering. One week later we picked up where we left off, he hasn't been as smothering and we've seen each other atleast 2-3x per week ever since. He says even though I'm a happier and nicer to be around, I'm "on trial" b/c of how I treated him early on. I have significant feelings for him and he spends time with both my daughter and I. However, I noticed he's logged on the online dating service recently - do I give this more time, if so how much? Or put my foot down?
Guest Posted September 18, 2006 Posted September 18, 2006 He says even though I'm a happier and nicer to be around, I'm "on trial" b/c of how I treated him early on. I have significant feelings for him and he spends time with both my daughter and I. However, I noticed he's logged on the online dating service recently - do I give this more time, if so how much? Or put my foot down? Ditch the douche. First, he puts you on a "trial". How sweet of him. Then, he trolls online services. Double sweet. Run, don't walk. The last thing you want is to let your daughter get needlessly attached to this cretin. He isn't serious about this relationship as you are fast becoming.
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